Na hoailona o ka 'ino

Ka lāʻau 'ino - ia ka loa kaumaha a me ka hiki ole i ka hana maʻi, ia mea pono e hoʻomaopopo i ka like kakahiaka nui i hiki ke lawe i hiki lapaau ana.

Aloha makua, ho'āʻo e hoolohe, e nana pono i ka hana o ke keikikane a ke kaikamahine. Ka poe i ola makou mahope o ka kaumaha ke kaumaha o ka make ana o ko lākou mau keiki iho, e olelo aku, "Delve i loko o ia mau mea, e kaha i kaʻekeʻeke, overhears ke kamailio ana." Ma ka kekahi lima, ia mea -ʻino nā haʻawina e hiki e hoolilo ia i kāu mau keiki. Akā, ma ka mea 'ē aʻe - ka mea i ike, malia o na makua kekahi mai i paulele kā lākou keiki ai blindly, makuahine a me Pāpā e ho'ōla i kā lākou mau ola ...

I ole hihia e ole belittle i ka pilikia e hāpai 'ino. Mai ho'āʻo ke alualu wahahee "modernity" a me ka "holomua" e lawe i ka slogan "i loko o ke ola 'oe e ho'āʻo i nā mea a pau e pono ai." Lākou mau pono, e hiki ke hana i ka hewa manaʻo i loko o na keiki i ka mea i hiki a me ka mea mea ole.

Eia naʻe, ka mea i makemake ia i loko o ka iapaau ana o ka 'ino ua wale 5-10 pakeneka o na loaʻa.

A maikaʻi nana aku i na hoailona mua o ka 'ino i nā manaʻoi hoʻokoe' huai ae maʻi. E hoomanao i ka mea mea maikaʻi ia e palekana a me kekahi manawa hōʻike excessive e hoʻohuoiʻia, ma mua o ka nānā aku i ka mea i hanaia, "he makapo maka" a me ka manaʻo i nā mea a pau, e mālama somehow.

Mai hoʻoloheʻole ai i kēia mau mea hiki symptoms o ka 'ino, e like naʻau i loko nā poʻohiwi o, kaumaha unfounded paha excessive ka hoihoi, no ka mea ka mea, aohe mau kumu. Wary ina wale ka teenager mea enthusiastically kamailio, i kaʻana like huna, kokua a puni ka hale - a me ka manawa ma hope, "inflated", lilo apathetic a me ka makemake i ka wehewehe i konaʻano'ē kolohe. Rapid naʻau i loko nā poʻohiwi o hiki e hala loa hōʻike o incipient ka lāʻau 'ino.

A loli ma ka pāpana o ka hiamoe - ia mea i na hoailona o ka 'ino. No ka laʻana, i loko o ke keiki, aole ia e hele aku mai o ke keʻena, e hiamoe ana paha e moe ana ma ka moe, a ma ke ahiahi, ma hope o kona hoi ana mai me nā hoa i ka hele ana, liloʻeleu a me ka hana mikiʻala ma ka lā. Inā i ke kumu o ka 'aʻe' ana i ka? Eia o ka lā - ka lāʻau 'ino, a laila, na mea a pau, ua maopopo: na nā pōkiʻi loaa i kekahi hapa o ka "kiʻekiʻe" aloha o ka euphoria a me ka lakou i manao i ka mea hiki ke holo i na mauna. Ua ka hana i loko o ke ahiahi, a ma ka po - ma hope o ka lawe ana i ka mahele lāʻau. Ma ke kakahiaka o ka hoʻonui luhi e hoonoho iho i manao ai, a me nā loira ke moe a hiki i ke ahiahi.

Maiʻaʻole hoʻi e hala ai ka hala a me ka hoʻololi i kaʻai. Kēia -ʻAʻole loa ai maʻamau, ina e ole makemake i kou mau keiki, eʻai lākou i ka lā, a ma hope o ka halawai me ka pūʻulu o nā hoa a me ke kālā manawa i loko o ka paʻa lumi hiki maʻalahi "umolot" kekahi mau hookauwa ole ai lakou.

Ae, i kēia mau symptoms i e typical no ke ola i ke kamaiki, akā, inā wale kekahi o ia akaka, pono, ai ole ia, elua - i'ōlelo ai. Inā no kekahi manawa oe e kūpono huli a pau o na ano ekolu o ke keikikane a ke kaikamahine - urgently lawe ana me kali no ka mea "pakiko-e hele" aiʻoe i manaʻo ai.

Aia i hoi na hana mana o ka 'ino. No ka laʻana, ke keiki hoʻomaka koke i haalele iho a me ka noho malie, ka mea, ua uhi pū a me ka intractable. He loaʻa hou hoa, a oeʻaneʻane ua ike i kekahi mea, aʻaʻole iʻikeʻia loa pono. I ka Ia manawa ka mea, ua nui emi manawalea ana mai iaʻu me ka kahiko mau hoaaloha a me ka 'ohana. I kekahi manawa,ʻaʻole he hewa, e hoolohe mai i ka a kamailio me kou mau hoa (a hiki ina e maopopo loa ua mau hoa iāʻoe, akā, e kēia manawa, a laila, hopu i ka na hopuna, mai ko lakou mau waha). Kekahi novice addicts encrypt kou i kamaʻilio, no laila, i ole e hoʻokali kūpono 'e hoʻohuoiʻia. Huli i loko o kēia hana ma ka aʻo, lilo o ka hoihoi i loko o hana hoʻonanea hou, e ulu ai o ka carelessness, forgetfulness - kēia mau mea a pau, he hoailona o ka 'ino.

Mai haʻalele me ka noonoo ana i kekahi loli ma ka nānā aku: E kahalina i, kekahi manawa e hōʻike ''ē gleam i loko o kona mau maka, a, o ka papa, ko läkou' o injections.

E makaʻu, a me ka hoonuiia kālā pono o kā lākou mau keiki. Oe paha i loaʻa i ke poho o ke dala, a me kekahi o ka waiwai mai ka hale. Inā 'oe koke huli i ka ike kumu o maloʻo mauu, he'ē he lepo lā i mea - ia mea aneane pololei hoike. E Pono e lawe ka manaʻo a me ka drastic hana.

Ma ke kahua mua o ka 'ino i ke kanaka paa, e pakele i kekahi manawa, no ka mea, aole ia i keia manawa i physical eha - wawahi,ʻo ia ke nânâ i pono. Ma ka mea e hiki mai ana ke kahua o ka lāʻau lawe hou e malama i "tolerant" moku'āina - ai ole ia, e lilo i ikaika wanaao ae-mai. E lawe i ka lāʻau, i ka kanaka i ka ikehu a me ka ohohia - oia no ke nânâ i ka mahele lāʻau. Akā, ka mea e ma ka liʻiliʻi loa emi, ka maʻi e neʻe aku i ke kolu o ke kahua. Ano, i ka pahuhopu o ka lāʻau? Eaia - i noho kiʻekiʻe, a me ka ole haʻiʻana. Ua piha ke kino me ka mea awaawa make, ke kanaka degrades, ka mea pepehi i ka lolo. A pau i kēia hiki aku i ka make.

'Ino, loaʻa manawa, treatable, a me ka lā hoʻokahi Ala ae la noa o keia kaukaʻi kaumaha, meaʻoiaʻiʻo, e hai aku oe "aloha oe" kāu keiki.