Single makua ohana

E like me ka 'ikepili helu o ka mau nui ao nei mana (Rusia, a me ka United States), ma kahi o 30% o nā keiki i lawe mai ai, i loko o nā makahiki, hookahi-makua mau ohana. Ke kumu no keia i oki mare (kaawale) o ka makua, i ka loiloi mua nele o ka 'ohana pili (hanau ana mai o ka berita mare), i ka make ana o ka makuahine, a me ka makuakane. Kāpili ohana mea, o ka papa, i ka hoʻopaʻi. Ma ka 'ohana i hiki ke ulu i ke keiki ola, a mentally' O ke kaulike a me ka hulina? Acaeoey. Akā,ʻaʻole e mau ana. Deviations nō kānāwai. A pinepine lawa.

I mea e hōʻoia i kekahi keiki e ulu ana i ia iho, me ka kumu a me ka ulu ana o kekahi mau phobias, pono ka 'ohana kahi e e uku hoʻolohe i ke keiki, a ma kaʻaoʻao wahine (ka makua) a me ke kane (makua) - he piha ohana.

ʻike manaʻo wehewehe neurotic kūpono 'ana,' ano 'kāna hana a me patoharakterologicheskie kuhikuhi ka nele o ka piha ohana o ke keiki. Makua a ohana i ka lewa i loko o nā keiki kāne i mālama '-kula ma ka moodiness a me ka hysteria, causelessʻana, a hiki ticks; kaikamahine pinepine ia lŘlŘ stuttering. Nervousness ma ke kula makahiki,ʻaʻole wale nō 'aʻole e hele aku, aka, i ke maoli. A ua 'ano' kāna hana i oi hai. O ke kumu ho i ko mākou hopohopo breakdowns makuwahine, na makua kāna hana ole wale i ka wahine kāne hemo paha, akā, he lōʻihi manawa ma hope mai. Eia hou kekahi, no ka poʻe mamo ka mea nui e pono kumu hoʻohālike o ka wahine paha, ka ', a haawi aku i kāpili' ohana ke ole.

Ke initiator o ke kaawale mea nō kāu he wahineʻaoʻao (makuahine), unsatisfied i loko o kekahi mau hihia, excessive palupalu o kāna kāne, a me kona "hikiʻole, e ola", oiai kekahi poe - oi egocentric a me kaʻoʻoleʻa olelo o ka dominance. kūlana uuku, oddly lawa, Radio i alcoholism makua.

A e like me ka ke kumu o ka hysterical neurosis keiki kāne - i loko o ka wa e kaawale aku o kona makua kāne keiki, a me ka 'O ia hoʻi ka mea naʻau responsiveness makuwahine. Pinepine, ia mea no hoi i ka hopena o interpersonal,ʻaʻole mamua aeia, ka makuwahine o kāna hana e lawelawe me kona mau makua. Mother pehea e lawe mai i kēia mau ka pili ma ma luna o nā keiki, e lilo ana no ia i kekahi kumu o ka io manaʻoʻike hopena.

I kekahi manawa, loaʻa nō "involuntary redirection" io makuahine i kana keiki i kona wa i ulu nui loa aku ia i kona makua kāne e like. No ina ka ili ole wale ka mea mawaho ano, "oe e naʻaupō kēia," "E, hoi, hiki ole ke hana i kekahi mea", etc. Ma nā hua'ōlelo, ka makuahine i hāʻawi mai i nā mea hoʻonoho ma luna o ka mea hookahi inferiority kāu keiki. E like me ka hopena - nele i o ka wiwo ole, shyness, paha, ma ka mea ku ole, aggression a me ka nele o ke ana.

I hookahi-makuaʻohana kahi o ka makuahine, ua komo i loko o ka hoʻonaʻauao, ka pilina a me kāna mau keiki kāne hou kue mua me kā lākou mau kaikamāhine.

Ka hakina ohana, ka makuahine pinepine, e huli hou i ka hale o kona mau makua. Maoli ai, ka mea kokua i ka kaikamahine,ʻike piʻi manaʻoe hōʻeha i ke kahiko keiki-ma. A i mau, a hiki Ike e no laua, ho okumu i ka hou io ia ma luna o ka psyche, i ka puʻe i ke keiki, ke akea ka haʻiʻana i kēia me ka manaʻoe hōʻeha a recriminations moopuna ma ke ano o kona makua kāne, ohui i ka wa kamalii inā pilikia ka haumāna.

I kekahi manawa makuwahine kekahi, i ke dia i poe kumu, kino, kumu a me nā mea aʻo-po pūʻulu o kindergartens a me kula hanai. Inā e haʻalele keiki e noho me kona makuwahine, lawe malama o ia formally oko iki i loko o e like me ka malama ana o na keiki i ka elua-makua mau ohana, akā, me ka oko ao ma o ka mana - nui. Girls i poʻeʻuʻuku kapu ma mua o nā keikikāne. A me ka puʻe ma luna o ia mea nui emi. Stricter kumu hoʻohālikelike a ma ka pili ana i na keiki ma muli o ia i makemake e hele aku, mai kekahi kope hiki i kona makua kāne kāna moʻolelo. No ia mea,'āhewa, olelo hooweliweli a me physical hoopai ma ka pili ana i na keiki hou pinepine pili. A, conversely, haʻalele wale i kona kaikamahine, i ka makuwahine pili ia i kona mau pono a me ka mālie. Kekahi kumu no ka mea, oia ke ike i ka mea, e like me ka palena manawa no iho, a, no ko ianei manao kaikamahine i hookoe mai i kekahi mau loa ia iho.

Kaawale ana o nā mākua e loli ai ke kaikamahine oi hana keaka ina mea ua nākiʻi i kona makua kāne oi ma mua o kona makuwahine. Kū'ē papa hiki ke ano hoomainoino a me ka makau o losing kona makuwahine, oa ka makau o ka loneliness a me ka pilina hoʻokaʻawale. No ke kahe o kona makua kāne, kaikamahine i oi paha ma mua o nā keikikāne i makau ia e hele i ka hoʻoponopono Mother. Lakou makau i ka makuwahine i ole i kekahi manawa, e hele mai hoʻi, a ia ia ka mea e hiki mai. E hoomahuahua oe i nohona ma Pīhoihoi au, e like me ka makaʻu ana i puka mai ma ka kakahiaka nui elemakule. A laila - diagnoses: ka iini neurosis, hysterical neurosis. A i loko o ka wā e hiki mai - neurosis, obsessive-compulsive kāna hana: na rituals o ka poino, manaʻo o ka hoʻokō 'ole', ahiahi, phobias.

Ma ke kūlana uʻi a makahiki kani mua maopopo depressive-neurotic symptoms: mau naau naʻau i loko, kaumaha, hopelessness, mistrust, ikaika makau, nele o ka hilinai i loko ona iho, inā pilikia ka haumāna no ka mea, o ka mea au he mea ole, oolea ma ka noho pu ana me ka mea ku pono ana i ke keka, fluctuations ma ka olelo-ana.

Kāpiliʻohana maoli nō mea,ʻaʻole he hoahewa. Hihio loko pilina me ke keiki, e pelu ana ma hope o ka disintegration o ka ohana, e e hele i ke keu stress a me ka hooulu ana o nā phobias. Mai poina i ka papa kuhikuhiE mea: i ke keiki mea,ʻaʻole e'āhewa wale no ka mea e ole ka pilina i loko o nā mākua. I hookahi-makua ohana walohia, kākoʻo, a komo nō e pono ai i loko o ka wahi mua i ke keiki, o kona hopena, ua Wehewehe i nā hāʻina me kona ike ole 'ae' ana ...