Aloha ma mua maka. Myth paha Pahele?

Ua loaʻa he aloha ma mua maka? Aia He apuepue ke kanaka nana i ole noi i kēia nīnau. A me ka mea e loaʻa kekahi mau examples, e hooiaio ana i kekahi a me kekahi wahi o ka Hawaii. He aha kanaka ke makemake pono i ka hapa iki o ka lua, ka mea, 'aʻole i koi maopopo. Kēlā me kēia o ko mākou uaʻalo me ka like kulana home 'ole. Eia naʻe, kela mea keia mea i kona hopena iho a hiki i kēia moʻolelo. I mea no ke aha kanaka o ka manao i ke aloha i mua ike ai okoa.

Akā, inā e loaʻa iā ia ma ka liʻiliʻi loa kekahi kanaka, ka mea, 'o ia hoʻi i ka mea i koe? E ka i lele i ka hopena. Ka mea i kanaka i ke puana ahakanaka la ke aloha a me ke aloha. Love - keia mea he pokole attraction i ka ua kanaka la. A me ke aloha - Ua oi ka hui ana o ka mau naau, pono i ka hoao ana o ka manawa.

Inā 'oe i naʻau i ke kanaka Kahalaopuna me ke aloha i mua ou, pehea la e hiki aiʻoe e 100%ʻoiaʻiʻo i ka mea mea aloha, aʻaʻole aloha? I ka mea,ʻaʻohe alanui. Oe wale i ke hilinaʻi hopena a me ka manaʻolana i ka pilina me ia kanaka, e e lōʻihi a me ka pomaikai.

Ma ke ala, e ka manaoio ma ka naue like wehewehe o ka manaoio ana o na mea he nui kanaka e aloha ma mua maka, aole ia nei. E like me ke kumumanaʻo o ka poe hoahanau aku hoi i na uhane ino, mai a wale hanu ana romanticism, i kela mea keia mea o mākou i ka uhane kokoolua i loko o kēia nui ao nei, ka mea wale kekahi, a ua pono loaʻa ia, i ole ia ka pomaikai i loko o kou kino ola loa, e e. Inā mea maoli o ka hihia, a me ka ho'āʻo 'ole höʻoia' i kēia kumumanaʻo mea hiki ole, ia mea he Logical i ka wa a makou i halawai ia i kekahi kanaka, intuitively oe haha aku i ka mea, o - ka ia kanaka me ka mea a mākou e destined e ola ana i ke koena o kona ola.

Akā, me ka manao - ka rarity a wale ia lŘlŘ koke aku i loko o ka wa e ola ana, a me ka poʻe maopopo leʻa makemake e 'ike ia, ia mea pinepine ia no ke aloha i mua maka maliuʻia ano ikaika attraction. I ole, ka lapuwale ma ko lakou mau hormones, lawa e aʻo e hoomaopopo aloha mai ke aloha.

Love haawi i ka manao o ka he lauwili anei, ka pomaikai a me ka maikai o ke ola, oiai ke alohaʻoihana'ē aʻe e like me ka ikaika 'ino, hoopaaia lakou mai i ka mea o ka adoration a me ka hana iā mākou ko mākou hopohopo, inflated a me kona olioli ole. Eia kekahi, ke aloha i ka mea hiki, e holo koke ma, i ka wa a ke kanaka i loko o ka mea a mākou e hāʻule i loko o ke aloha, nalo mai ko kakou mau ola. Akā, aloha e, aole loa e hele aku.

O ka holo ana, ke aloha ka mea 'ē aʻe, he pono ole. I mea no ke aha la he nui kanaka i scalded i ke aloha hoopunipuni i mua maka, a lilo aku manaoio i loko o laila. Akā, oiaio, aloha e hele mai i kela kanaka keia kanaka ma neia hope aku. Ia, aole ia i ia mea i loko o ka kuahene mea e hoohei mai ia kakou. Paha oe e hele i ka mea e, e ole he mau makahiki mai keia aloha ana ma mua ia o ka poe i haule iho ma ke aloha a me ka manawa loa mua.

A ina oe nō kanalua e aloha nei, e hoomanao i ka leo kahea o ka mua ke aloha, mea hiki ole e pioloke i kekahi mea. I ia manawa, i kekahi manaʻo e pili ana i ke kala, nohona haʻahaʻa a me nā nonsense. First Love - o ka ke kilokilo manaʻo, a e wehe i ka puka no mākou i ka ke kilokilo ao o kanaka e pili ana. Eia naʻe, ke kaiāulu kanaka, Ua okoa manawa ke ano o kēia mau manaʻo, a lawe mai materialistic e pili ana i ke aloha. Puhi kekahi mau manawa, i ke kanaka hoʻomaka i ka manaoio i ka mea i aloha ma laila, a pau na kuleana aia pono.

Inā 'oe i noho ai i ia manaʻo, paha i ka halawai ana me ka mua ke aloha Ua kokua oe. No, ka mea, meaʻaʻole paha ia e kou "kanaka no ke ola", pono, e hoʻi i kēia huiʻana o ka manaʻoʻiʻo i loko o na hana mana, a kōkua iāʻoukou i loko o ka hou ala, a, e ka mea e nana i ka nani o ke kanaka kona piko a kahiko ala.

Mai lilo aku i kēia manaʻo, a ua ike hoi, e e hiki, eʻai i ke aloha ma mua maka, a hiki huli i kou ola a pau ia oe. A hiki ina mea welau ino, mai hopohopo, oe e, ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, ina e kekahi, e hoomanao, akā, i kou aloha oiaio, eʻoiaʻiʻo nō, e hele mai.