He aha e hana i ka noho aloha i aloha ai?

Nui, ina oe i ke kanaka i aloha. Akā, pehea e malama i ke kāʻili wale o ko i ua mua, no ka makahiki e hiki mai ana?

He He punahele,ʻaʻole wale nō, akā, i ka hoa

E ho'āʻo i ka ho okumu i ka lewa i loko o kou pilina o ka piha paulele. E i kou kanaka punahele hiki pono ia iaʻu a puniʻoe, no laila, ia ia i ole pono e hōʻike ikaika a me ka ikaika. Hehe, ka mea, he mea ia e nawaliwali. Akā, i ke koena unuhi o ia ina e ae ia ia e hoike aku i ka nawaliwali, e i oia hou hilinai oe. He e kaʻana like ai me oe i koʻu manao, kuka, makaʻu a me nā mea pohihihi, ka makau o ka hoohewaia'na, a hoowahawaha ole. Inā e hōʻike anaʻoe pono i ke kanaka hemolele me ka hewa, i kona nawaliwali nō ka mea, e hele anywhere. Aloha,ʻo ia ka mālama i hūnā iā lākou, me ka i hoʻolaʻaʻia lāʻoe i kou mau manao a me ka manaʻo.

Inā e manaʻo ana ke kanaka i aloha hana hewa, "a me" 'ē aʻe. Manao wale i kou nani - pololei kou hoa maikai. Pehea makemake oe hele i loko o ia i ka kulana home 'ole? ʻaʻole pū nui na kanaka e pono ai'ōlelo aʻo, ka mea imi i ka hoʻoponopono i nā mea a pau i ka pilikia ma luna o lākou iho. Wale no ka hoikeia kākoʻo. Oe ke olelo aku i kekahi mea e like:.... "Ae, o ka papa, e he ole loa ai pono Akā, i ka mea i hanaʻia,ʻaʻole i hoʻopauʻole Ano, e ka hoʻomaka mai o ka mea ia mākou i kēia manawa Ma kekahi hihia, I Like ma kouʻaoʻao Mai hopohopo, ua e hana i keia kulana.ʻoe 'oe i ikaika / naʻauao / ... ke kanaka, a pau, e e pono. " Inā 'oe "kua" ono,ʻaʻole ia e hoʻololi i kekahi mea. Inā he kanaka ka hoomaopopo ana ia mea hewa, ka mea e ole i ke scold ia iho no ka hewa hana. No pono e hoonui i wahie i ke ahi , a hahao i puʻe i kona hoʻoponopono-ʻia. E allies. E kou punahele kanaka ike i ka mea, ua aloha a me ka mahalo a me nā mea a pau kona hewa.

Mai e ka "mommy"

Maternal instinct waiho i loko o mākou, akā, mai i lawe mai ia i kona unspent ke aloha i ke kanaka. He mea he kanaka makua, a kuokoa kanaka, naʻe noho ai. Inā e emi loa kaʻoluʻolu i lawe malama ana, koke maiʻo ia e hiki, e like me ka mea, e olelo aku, "E noho ma ka ai a me ka wāwae dangle." A maluhiluhi o kou excessive malama, a ala mai e ku e ia oe. Ua koho mai i hoopii iā mākou. E i kāu mea i aloha aiʻo ia nā manaʻo hoʻoholo kū kaʻawale, a mea kuleana no lākou hopena. ʻO ina e ike i kona mau hana, e alakai i ka hopena kaumaha, mai koi. Ka hoike i kou mau manao, a haʻalele ia i ku okoa ana o ka maikai loa. I ole ia, ma kahi o ke kākoʻo 'oe, e loaa i kekahi hou keiki. Ke kanaka mea,ʻaʻole hiki i vivid manaʻo no ka wahine e hoi e like me ka makuwahine.

E huli e manao ana piha

Ae oe ia oe iho, e aloha! Aloha oe ia oe iho a me ka haawi aloha, a me ka malama kuko i kā lākou mau mea i aloha ai. Mai Mai e kou pilina lilo i "sluggish schizophrenia". E oe e e lealea, hana hoʻonanea ami hoike ia. Mai Mai e ola "huliʻawaʻawa"! Hoʻokolohua!

No hoi, mai hoopoina e pili ana me ka dukima "pleasantness". No ka laʻana, kākauʻo ia i akahai a passionate SMS, ka wāʻoe i ole puni. E hiki anei ia oukou ke manao o kekahi palapala pono'ī makana i ka mea i aloha ai. Hana i kou kino mooolelo - no ka mea hoike, i ke kakahiaka, e inu kope, a kamailio e pili ana i kekahi mea. Oe e hana i kou ola iho! Hana ma luna o laila.