He aha ka ka pulakaumaka nui

Kēlā me kēia o ko mākou ma ka liʻiliʻi koke akā, ike mai la laua ia ia iho Kīwala'ō ma lalo i pulakaumaka loa. I ka manaʻo, i ua mau spinning i loko o koʻu poo, 'aʻole e hoʻomaha a me ka mai i makemake i ka hele anywhere, ma kekahi wahi, i hiki, ka mea i he leʻaleʻa, oiai kekahi poe e ia i kekahi kumu o ka nui pilikia wale. Me lakou i mea hoike, manaʻo e pili ana paha oe ua paa hou mai la ka hale i ka wai auau, huli aku ke kinoea ma laila i loko o ka lumi kuke. Ia mau manaʻo me ka pilikia hiki i kekahi maoli compulsive neurosis.

hiki ole kekahi kanaka kōkua akā, manaʻo i ka mea, wahi a ka weliweli. Kēia mea,ʻaʻole e pili ana paranoia, a e pili ana i ka wā i kekahi kanaka ua loa ua kokoke mai ka hiki ai ia he pilikia ia ia. No ka laʻana, he kanaka hiki ke hahai i pulakaumaka ua hoʻopili i ka mea i ina e hele mai ma hope o ka hora umi ma ka po, alaila ia e hoouka aku i ka powa i loko o kaʻeleʻele lākeke me ka pahi ma kona lima, a me ka bandanna a puni kona'ā'ī. ʻO lalo laina mea i kēia mau manaʻo ke kauo loa piha kiʻi. An hana hoihoi mea mea i kekahi kanaka e loaa ana mai ka pulakaumaka i ho'ākāka 'ia ma luna e ole e pane ina kona ma ke alanui a hiki i hao wale i kekahi kanaka i loko o kaʻeleʻele lākeke me ka pahi, akā, me ka bandanas. He e hoʻi i ka hale, a e lilo hou-pōʻaiapuni ma haunting kiʻi, akā, me ka powa hanaia loa koke poina.

Pinepine pulakaumaka ulu mai o ka makemake i kekahi mea e hana ai. Ia mea,ʻaʻole e pono i loko o kēia waeʻano e manaʻo e pili ana i hoomaha, e hele ana i ka kiʻiʻoniʻoni, a no laila, ma luna, e like me keia mea me ka mau makemake, ku pono i ka i loa he hope ma laila. ahupapa a pulakaumaka nui o ia e hana, bizarre, unacceptable - i loko o nā hua'ōlelo, ka mea pono hoole aku paha i ke ano o ke kanaka, ka mea i kipa. Pinepine i kēia mau manaʻo i loa naʻaupō kēia. No kekahi laʻana: e hele mai ma luna o ka papaʻaina i loko o luna o kona alo, e haawi aku i ka saleswoman mai ka kūloko kūʻai i toothbrush, e aihue i kekahi mea, mai ke keʻena o kona hoa. A pau i kēia kani he kūoʻo, akā, maanei mai e ike i kanaka e loaa ana mai keia i leʻaleʻa. Ia mau manaʻo ke e kekahi kanaka ko mākou hopohopo twitches, e imi ana i kahi mehameha, o ka papa, e loli ai kuhikuhi ma luna o kona psyche.

O ka holo ana, ka pulakaumaka i e maikai: e loaʻa i ka hailona o ke kala, i ai no kona ohana, hele i ke ao nei. Kēia mau manaʻo , he loa kūpono, a mai ka maʻamau kanaka makemake OAOOUIEeE wale i loko o lākou ka mana. Ke hoohihia mai ia mea i kekahi kanaka me ka pulakaumaka nui e pili ana i ke kala, e hoolilo i ko lakou ola holoʻokoʻa me ke ahiahi manao e pili ana i ke kumu oia i makemake ia. Akā, i ke kanaka me ka pulakaumaka nui e pili ana i Launa Male ka pomaikai e e imi ana no nā mea a pau i kona ola, akā, e make wale, a aole nae i loaa i ke kekahi me a, e hoʻomaka i ka 'ohana.

Pulakaumaka nui o: pehea e hana me ia

Ka mua mea e maopopo ke kumu ua i kēia neurosis ke kumu: luhi, ilihuneʻai, nele o ka hiamoe, i hūnāʻia pono, a no laila, ma luna o. Me ka naauao, a me kaʻike o ka pilikia e e kaua aku ia.

E kiʻi aku i ka hana e haawi aku oe i ka malu o ka pulakaumaka nui o ka pilikia, a laila, ho'āʻo i ka hoomaopopo iaʻu iho ia ia mea naʻaupō kēia, a me ka hana i ka hiki ole i ke. He hiki i keia, e kōkuaʻoe.

I pulakaumaka loa, e pili me ka makaʻu, me ka maikai lapaau i loko o ka "wehe ke kahua". Hana oe i manao ia heʻeleʻele popoki - he kumu no nā mea a pau ka hewa i loko o ke ao nei, kiʻi i kēia holoholona ma ka hale; I manaʻo i loko o ka attic ola noho kanaka i makemake e make - e hele ma laila, a maopopo lea ai na mea a pau i noho mālie a me ka a malie iho la.

I Kekahi Mau aoao e aumeume no, a me ka manaʻo pili i ka mea a me ka neatness. I manao oe i ua koho koke, pehea, laila, hoʻomau i ka i oleʻano.

He pinepine e hiki ke malama i ka neurosis o obsessional ka neʻe 'ana i loko o nā keiki. Ana ka mea, ua maikaʻi loa hana me ke kākoʻo o ka hoʻomalu, e like me ka maʻi o ke keiki,ʻaʻole e e trifled.

I mau, au makemake e hoʻouka hou aku au i ole Hawaiʻi moku, e huli ana i ka 'oihana psychologist e kōkua pakele o ke ahiahi, i ka loa paakiki pulakaumaka hookahi, a no nā mea a pau.