He aha mua moe kaikamahine? Mākou i aʻo!

I ke ao o ka moe pinepine mea hiki aku i i ole mea e hiki mai i ka lanakila. Oia hanana nā walaʻau a me kaʻauʻau kai me kanaka, ka poe i nalowale mai i kou ola ala, ka oi aku o ka hoa kahiko a me ka mea i aloha ai. E ka'ōlelo, i mua moe kaikamahine. He IeAUPIIe, IAa IO oiaio no me ka lahilahi noʻonoʻo hui keiki kanaka, no ka mea, Ua pinepine ma hope o na hihio, i ka mua naoh mea e ho'āʻo e hookupaa i ka hui 'ana me ka mea mua mea o kaniʻuhū ana. A me keia mea pinepine ole pono 'aʻole ole.

I ka manao rationally, ka mea wale nō mea e mamua moeʻuhane kaikamahine, ka mea, ke i nei ka uwila wawe i. A i 'ole paha oe wale pono hiki ole "e hele" o ke kanaka o koʻu ola, a subconsciously kipaku me ia i ke kamailio ana, Loiloi i hanana ma ka rula o ka "mea oia e olelo aku ia ia," a ua mau hoohalike me ka mea ma mua, ke aloha hou hoalauna. Pinepine i loko o lākou ka lokomaikaʻiʻia mai. No ia mea, ina o ka mua kaikamahine moe pinepine, ia mea he mea e noonoo i kona ola iho: paha oe Pono e noonoo i ko lakou heluia ana i ka hala, a idealizing puke mea kaniʻuhū ana ana. Keia kanawai ma kaʻike manaʻo ua kapaia "wehe ae gestalt", a me ka mea, mai ka hopena ma kekahi kumu paha o ka ola.

Eia naʻe, 'Aʻohe wai iaʻu, mai ka naauao pokole o ka moe, loa pinepine na pane pono i ka ka pukaʻana hihio haawi downers. Kēia hale ahu waiwai o ke kaulana naʻauao hiki i kekahi manawa i radically kū'ēʻana aku i ke ano o ke ia mau hanana, akā, loa pinepine ka mea, e haawi aku unmistakable aʻo ma pehea e hana i kekahi kanaka a hana, ka mea ike i loko o ka malie ana o ka po. Mākou i aʻo mea mua kaikamahine moe, mai ka oiai ua ike mai o mystical ike o ka moe-puke.

Ma keia hilo, he mea piha beritaʻike manaʻo a me ka mysticism: i ka moe o ka hala ipo nô i kou makemake, e hoopoina no keia pili. Akā, loaʻa nō kekahi subtleties i loko o ia mau hihio. No ka laʻana, ina moe i ka mua ke aloha me ka hou Beau, ka mea i makemake i kou makana-lā koke ia, e pepehi maiʻoe, e koho pehea e hoʻomōhala i kouʻikena puke ma luna o. Akā, inā e hiamoe oe me ka komo o ka hana hoʻonanea maikaʻi a me ka olioli mua - ka mea, 'o ia hoʻi' oe i ka hoohalike ana i kou pilina hala me he kahua hala o ke ola.

No ke aha la moe e pili ana oiai ma-loira o Freud ka moe puke? Inā he mea he hihio o ka moe hui 'ana me ia, a hiki honi - kēia' o ia hoʻi i ka loli ke hiki mai, me ka hou ola hoa, e ia i ka lōʻihi manawa hoaaloha o ka wahine au i loko o kou kino ola. Kekahiʻano o kēia mau nā moeʻuhane: i ka paulele i ka hoʻomana ola e i pilikia, na aa o ka i moe i loko o kou hala.

He aha mua kaikamahine moe o ka Dream ka hoohalike ana Hasse - Ua kokoke mau ka mea hoʻomanaʻo no kekahi mea, mai ka hala. Kēia paha e kekahi meaʻawaʻawa loa, ina oe e hoohiki paha e kamailio pu ana me ka mea mua, a malia paha like ka unexpected halawai ana me kekahi no ka lōʻihi manawa mea,ʻaʻole hiki ina ana honi. I mau, Hehe, e like me nā moeʻuhane e hoike aku nei ia i ka i hala mai ka hopena ma luna o kou wā e hiki mai, e wale maikai paha, he ino paha ina - e hilinaʻi nui ma luna o oe, a me ka wahi o ka mea i moe.