Ikaika ke kanaka - e like me ka mea e e?

One nunuiʻano pākīkē ola slender bespectacled mai la: "Ae, au hiki ke ale wale iho i kou guts!". He aha ka uhane ikaika o ke kanaka akahele pane aku, "I mea hihia, o kou'ōpū, e i oi lolo nona ka mua i loko o kou poo." Ma keia Honua Nei i loko o kona olelo e lilo hōʻike i ka pono o ke kanaka ikaika. Ua aʻole i ia e kāohi EII ni kinai. O ka holo ana, i ka "IQ ikaika nāʻiʻo mai i waiwai pio," akā, me ia hiki i waho o lanakila mai na mea he nui o ke ola ka pilikia. Ka mua anakahi o ka ikaika ka mea i hilinaʻi ai. I haaheo haliu ae la ia i loko o naʻaupō kēiaʻano wahawai a me ka saber rattling, oia, ma kahi kaʻawale, ma oe ia oe iho e like me ka kanaka.

'O kēia ka nawaliwali pono e hooiaio i kela kanaka keia kanaka i kona mea ikaika, a koa. Manawa a hiki i kēia 'ano o ka hoohaahaa ana, o na mea e ae ho'āʻo e piʻi i loko o kona mau maka a me ka manao o kekahi poe e ae, a me ka pinepine UOAN e tinned puʻu, e hoao i ko lakou hihia. Ikaika ke kanaka - he kanaka "no ka iho". 'aʻole i kēia manaʻo i ia mea - p', a egomaniac. He pono, aole e ola "window ua kahikoia a nani." Heʻike ia mea. Kona ikaika a me ka mana o ke ola pāhawewe hou pakiko-manao pono, a me kēia mau ale o ka ikehu ka hopu a puni, a hiki ina oia mea hāmau. He ike pono i kona makemake, a hele i kona pahu hopu, hoʻowahāwahā i nā nā pilikia. A me keia hōʻike i ka pono o kona mau e hiki mai ana.

Ke kanaka ikaika mea i makau o ka ole. Maoli ai,ʻo ia UOAN e pale aku ia - kahi mea hiki. I kekahi manawa, ua fallible. I kekahi manawa, ua poino fiasco. Akā,ʻo ia mau hooponopono iho i ke kiʻi i ka hope o ka hāʻuleʻana, a mai ke koa, e hoomau aku. He nui nā kanaka i kaumaha 'ike lākou inā' aʻole ': ka mea, hua lole kauo aku la ia ma ke alanui o ke ola. Mākou e makaʻu i ka halawai ana me ke kaikamahine, no ka mea, ka mea mua mai kīkoʻolā mai hōʻole. Kēia hihia He he mea oioi noho i loko o ka naʻau, e lawe mai ana mai hoʻi i ka hala, makana, kaʻapu kōheoheo a me ka 'auʻa' wā e hiki mai. Kanaka me ka lilo o ka pā, Aia ma luna o hoʻolako 'ole, ka mea, e ia i ka pahuhopu a me nā mea i loko o ka wā e hiki mai, i ole e noho ma luna o ka hala.

Ikaika ke kanaka - he rationalist. He ua ole e lei ana ke anuenue makaaniani, akā, maopopo i kā lākou maikaʻi a me ka io ano. A pau o kona pomaikai ia kailaʻae i kekahi Pomaikai pu ana o ka noho ana, a me ka 'ole hōʻino mai ia ia iho. Eia naʻe, ua he kanaka hewa ike i intellectually,ʻaʻole emotionally,ʻo ia hoʻi, 'aʻole e hoʻomaka i ka e hana ma ka pakiko-flagellation, a kālailai i ke kulana, hōʻike kahi āna i hana ai i ka hewa, a ke aʻo nā haʻawina no ka wā e hiki mai. Excessive pakiko-deprecation like tearful ka hoʻoponopono-aloha - he wao akua o ka manawa a me ka ho'āʻo no kēia mau kanaka. Lakou wale e hele i kā lākou pahu hopu. Nō hoʻi,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i hoʻomaka ai i ka leo nui kaena i kona pomaikai - maikaʻi ka hoʻoleʻa 'ē aʻe ma mua o nā mea nani hoʻi o lakou iho.

A ke kanaka ikaika, aole ia e hoohalike ia ia iho me ka 'ē aʻe. Kona lilo o ka honua , a no laila, uaʻike i nā mea a pau pū pono. He manao e ae aku i ka mea hiki eʻoi aku ma mua o 'ē aʻe - i loko o mau, o ka papa,ʻaʻole no kekahi ano. Ma ka mea 'ē aʻe, ka mea, aole e hoahewa wale ma ka mea a lakou e makemake e manao wale ia, e hele e hōʻike i ka olelo. He ka mahalo i kēlā kanaka, a me kona loko honua, makaukau e hoolohe i ka'ōlelo aʻo, akā, i ka manao hope o ke kua o ia. He ia mea i ka mea nāna i hana o kona iho naue like. Oia ke kanaka hele i ka pahu hopu maluhia a me ka maluhia, a me ka mai adverse kumu a me nā setbacks ia i lilo i naau.

A ke kanaka ikaika, aole ia e haawi i ka poʻe i lawelawe. He mālama i kona mau Emotions ma lalo o ana. Oia kekahi kanaka a pau i ka manawa me he mea la e noi ana ia makou iho: anei au hana pono? ia mea ke kumu o koʻu Likes a me Makemake 'ole o kekahi mau kanaka? Mai i alakaʻi ma ka huhu iaʻu? e wehe i ka 'ē aʻe na kanaka - ka mea, i kona makemake ana e kala aku, ia mea maʻalahi e hoʻopoina hoʻomauhalaʻole. I ikaika, ka mea, kamaʻilioʻana e kākoʻo i ka underdog. A me keia kumupaʻa, ka hanohano, pila hāpa e ai i ka maikaʻi naʻau i loko o ka 'ē aʻe. A ikaika'ō, e noonoo pono i ka mea implicitly alakai. A hanau alakaʻi, e like authoritarian upstarts, eʻaʻole pono e kuhikuhi i ka hoomana, malimali a me ka hoohaahaa ana o kekahi poe - a no laila, ua 'ike nö i ia ai.