Kue hooholo

Ma ka hapanui o onei, ia mea nui, e imi i ke ala e hoʻonā ia. Keia olelo i mea maopopo, akā, he nui kanaka uhi i ko lakou huhu ole wale "e holo ana." Ka mea, manaʻo e kue hoʻonā - he ano o ka pili ana 'ē aʻe, no laila, pono e malama maluhia, ina i hauʻoli i kekahi mea. Eia naʻe, ia mea unhealthy lōʻihi-makahiki ka hoʻolālā. Ma ka kekahi lima, i ka unresolved kue ke alakai i ka hāʻule pohō wale a me ka hou o onei i loko o ka pilina. Ma ka kekahi lima, oi importantly, ka mākau alu kue hiki nae i ka hopena maikaʻi ma luna o kanaka ola.

Eia naʻe, kue hoʻonā, ia mea i kekahi manawa loa paʻakikī. Kūpono ho'āʻo i nae e ke kulana lanakila ia.

E pale i kēia, e pono i ka walaʻauʻanaʻaoʻao o ka manao paa o onei.

Nā hualoaʻa ma ka hoʻopā i ko lākou mau manaʻo

An nui ke keʻena o ke kōkuaʻana i ka hoʻonā i kue wahi, i hiki, o ka kaʻike o na ko a me ka waiʻona ma ke. Ua i mea i kou naʻau e e maopopo iāʻoe, akā, i kēia mea,ʻaʻole mau i ka hihia. I kekahi manawa ua manao ka huhu a me kāʻeoʻeo, akā, i ike i ke kumu. Ma nā hihia, ke manaoio i ka mea'ē aʻe kanaka, aole ia i hana i ka mea, "e", akā,ʻaʻole kākou iʻike pono mea mākou makemake, mai ona aku. No laila, ka mea hiki e pono kiʻi i hoopa aku ai me ko lākou mau manaʻo, manaʻo a me ka 'upu'.

Hone kou Hawaiʻi

I ka wa e hele mai ai i ka hoʻokōʻana i loko o ka olelo hooholo o ka pāonioni, ka mea, he pono i ka hiki i ka ho olohe pono i ka mea'ē aʻe kanaka. Makou i ike, pehea mākou ke hana ia e like me pono me ka hoʻomaopopo lākou manaʻo a me ka waiʻona ma ke. He nui ke maopopo i ke kaua, mai ke kuanaʻike o kekahi kanaka,ʻaʻole pono lākou iho, ina ua makemake e hele mai i ka ae like. I mea, he mea naʻauao o ka mea a oukou e lohe, a ike - keia mea i ka pololei ala no ka hoʻoponopono 'i ka pilikia o "ka māmā olelo hooholo o kāna hana e lawelawe."

Eia naʻe, ʻeleu Papa Hana - he akamai i ole a pau paʻa. A e like me ka misconception mea i kanaka manao ia mea, e hoolohe ana i, a me ka mea i loko o ko lakou mau naau ua kālaiʻia i ke kēia pane, e lapalapa ana manaʻo e pili ana nou iho, no ka hewa i ka kekahi kanaka, etc.

Hana assertive kamaʻilio

Ua noa i ike ua hewa, hawawa koʻu olelo e kiola i wahie ma luna o ke ahi, a exacerbate kaua. He nui ia e hiki ka mea pono, a me ka maopopo assertive, akā,ʻaʻoleʻano pākīkē,ʻaʻole e hana i ka mea'ē aʻe kanaka kūlana pale e olelo aku. Kekahi o ka loa ka hoʻokō papa kōnane no kue hoʻonā i loko o kēia e pili ana i ka hoʻohana 'ana o ka hoʻoponopono-hypnosis ka hoʻolālā, "I manao ..." (ʻoiaʻiʻo, malie, etc.)).

E huli no ka pāʻoihana

Once oe maopopo i ka wahi o ka Hawaii o kekahi kanaka, aʻo ia e ike oe, e ka manawa e imi aoao e hoʻonā i kāna hana e lawelawe ia e hoopii nāʻaoʻaoʻelua. I kekahi manawa ia mea maikaʻi, e maopopo i ka wahi o ka Hawaii o ka interlocutor. Ma keia hihia, he mea e hoʻololi aʻe hiki ke hana i na mea kupanaha, a me ka kūkākūkā hamama - e lawe ana i kanaka kokoke i kahi hookahi. Ma na wahi he mea he kaua ma luna o ka hilo, ma i loaʻa nā oko ao, loaʻa nō kekahi mau koho: oe hiki ole ae i kekahi i kekahi, akā, he mea hiki, e imi i kaʻae like hoʻokuʻu ma kahai a waena lepo. A ina e manao hou ka paulele i ka mea, a hiki i kā lākou iho, akā, ka mea e e hoʻomaopopo i ka huli hou 'oe e loaʻa, e hāʻawi aku.

impossibility o ka pilikia

Inā ka kaua mau lōʻihi, ia mea kekahi manawa kupono, e 'ōlelo i kekahi pilina me ka hoa paio no i kekahi wā o ka manawa a me ka paʻa. Ma na hihia o ka hainā, no ka mea hoike, i ka make māinoino o physical malie - pilikino ola e e he makakoho. I ka Hana ana me ka 'ohana, alaila, hui aku i kekahi mau kapu, ka mea i hiki ke hoʻokō i ka maluhia coexistence. I ka pili aloha ma (i loko o ka hihia, kahi e kue hoʻonā mea hiki ole) ia mea kupono pü e hooki aku. Ma kekahi hihia, wale oe hiki 'iʻo nō ia e hou pili' ole nō i, e hooki ia lakou.