Loira he pepehi anaʻia iā iho: 'ehaʻeha ka A Kāohi

Ka loa paʻakikī mea ma ka pau o ka hana ana ma ka adolescence. Ma keia makahiki wā o ka hoʻokumu o ka wahine paha,, redefining ka cia moe. Eia hou kekahi, hormonal loli ana i ka pili me kaʻeleu moe ulu. Hormonal imbalance o ke kumu o ka pinepine naʻau i loko nā poʻohiwi o, bouts o aggression a kaumaha. He nolaila, he pono ole anal he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, ke kumu o ka i hiki e loa like.

He aha loira hooleiiaʻi mawaho he pepehi anaʻia iā iho

He pepehi anaʻia iā iho, a me he pepehi anaʻia iā iho - he intentional, deliberate deprivation o ke ola wale. No ka mea ke ola ana kekahi mau loira mea ma kamepiula no he pepehi anaʻia iā iho. Nā kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i loko o adolescence hiki e loa like. Kekahi keiki kanaka e prone i ka ikaika depressive Hawaii, kekahi hoʻomāʻewaʻewa mai ka waiʻona, 'ē aʻe, uaʻawahia, a narcotic' ino. Ua nui uaʻalo i ka make a me he pepehi anaʻia iā iho ana o kekahi mea i aloha ai, ua ilihune pili me na¯ a me nā mākua. I mea no ke aha la he mea he teenage he pepehi anaʻia iā iho. Kumu a me nā kumumea, e hoʻonāukiukiʻana, i ka uhukiia ma ka manaʻoʻike moku'āina o na keiki.

he pepehi anaʻia iā iho maʻi pale

Adolescents i kamepiula, i kekahi manawa, hiki i poino, a lawe i kona ola iho ma lalo o ka puʻuwai. Mau kanaka, ua nui loa impressionable, kūlana, ka mea, i ke ano o ka inferiority a me ka haahaa ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia. I 13-17 makahiki ma laila hele mai ka paepae kahi he pepehi anaʻia iā iho mea, he pono ole i waena o nā pōkiʻi. Nā kumu no kēia kŰia i? Anoee e na mea he nui psychologists.

Mau makahiki aku nei, i ke ao nei kaiāulu ua hoohikilele au ia suicides Marilyn Monroe, a Ernest Hemingway. A puni i kēia mau hanana me ka hana malu a hele aku la kamaʻilio hoʻowawāʻia. Ke ao nei i kekahi aʻo e pili ana i ka mea nui he pepehi anaʻia iā iho , noloko mai o ka hui, "Davydov lala" i ka makahiki 1993. Kela a me keia makahiki, ma ka liʻiliʻi loa 160 000 kanaka hana he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i loko o ke ao nei. Au ua i koe, a teenage he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, e aʻo manaʻoʻike nā hiʻona a me nā kumu o ka a hiki i kēia lā.

Loa pinepine, suicidal tendencies hōʻike 'ana i ka puke' pilikia i ola opiopio kanaka ka: stress, kaumaha, mea naʻau lability,'āno'ē pokole o ke ola. Poe akamai i kuhikuhi mai e he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i waena o adolescents ua pili me ka depressive ana e loli ai oi ma mua o 80% o ke keiki kanaka. Akā, i ka hana a me he pepehi anaʻia iā iho teenage na keiki, na kumu o ka i moe i loko o ka waiʻona a me ka lāʻau 'ino, ua hanahana loa ka noʻonoʻo' kāna hana, Mohai.

'ē aʻe o nā poʻe prone i ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho

Kumu Schneidman lawe mai 4 ka papa kuhikuhiE waeʻano o ka mea makemake, e hana he pepehi anaʻia iā iho ma luna o lākou iho kanaka:

1. imi haahaa i ka make ma ka ho'āʻoʻana, e hana ino aku ia lakou iho UOAAaOON e lawe mai i ka hihia a hiki i ka lethal hopena. Akā, i kēia ikaika ua mālama 'ia no ka lōʻihi. ke kanaka laila, hoʻomaka e hoehaeha ana kanalua no ka mea, ke ho'āʻo nei e rethink mea a pau, akā, i haʻalele manao o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho.
2. Initiator o ka make - i makemake e make. He mea paulele ia ia e ae aku i ka hopena weliweli, a me ka ho'āʻo ana e wale oia i ke kaʻina. Oia manic like ia lŘlŘ oi pinepine ia ma mua kanaka, akā, e hana, a he pepehi anaʻia iā iho o adolescents. Nā kumu no kēia kŰia moe ana i loko o ka subconscious.
3. Noke make 'aʻole i manaoio i ka make - keia mea i ka hopena. He naively manaoio i ka deprivation o kona ola iho - keia hoonohonoho hou ana, i ka i ka mea he pilikia UAIAaIN ma ka mea hou a me ka pomaikai. Oia nō ke poʻo kumu a mea kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i waena o adolescents ka poe i manaoio ma ka afterlife.
4. Player make. Kona alahouana,ʻokoʻa e pili ana i ka manawa kūpono e haalele mai ke ola i loko o kekahi alanui. A hiki i ke kanaka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho make ai ma ka mea pohihihi. Nā Papahana koho i ka make, hiki ole ke hoʻolimalima hale, e lawe mai i ka hihia a hiki i ka hopena, akā, wale no ka i poino ke ola. Lakou i mea hoike o ka holoholona hihiu o ka "Lūkini roulette" me ka revolver, a i ka rula e ana i ka pahu, he hoʻokahi wale nō nā pūpanapana i ka kekahi pana ole paha.

He pepehi anaʻia iā iho a me kona 'ano apau loa

Aia i ekolu papa kuhikuhi ano o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho.

• Oiaio - ka wā o ka teenager meaʻoiaʻiʻo i ka mea makemake i kona iho make. Kēia palapala no he pepehi anaʻia iā iho ka ano o nā keikikāne. Pomaikai ole oe hoao hiki aku ai i ka repetition.
• Ikepili koʻikoʻi - ka wā i kekahi kanaka'ōpiopio, a me ka wahine ho'āʻo nei e hana he pepehi anaʻia iā iho ma lalo o ka aoao o Emotions. Inā he pepehi anaʻia iā iho ua ole i loaa, ka mea, ua IeAUPIIe, IAa IO ole hai. Kēia mea paha i ka hapanui o na kaikamahine.
• Demonstrative - He He mea wale nō ia,ʻo lehulehu noonoo. hiki ke hai hou a me ka hou a me ka ho'āʻo 'ole ia, aole ia e hiki mai ai i ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho (koe ka ulia).

Kumu o teenage he pepehi anaʻia iā iho

Nā kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i waena o adolescents ua pinepine uhukiia ka i haalele ai ke aloha i loko, wahi lulu scandals, nele i ka naʻauao, mai na¯ a pono wale.

Eia hou, i ka laekahi Media ikaika hoonaukiuki ia ia i kekahi,ʻAʻole eʻoleʻanuʻu uʻi kanaka ma ka hoike ana i na suicides malihini, hoku. Ua mea,ʻaʻole he koe, a me ka World ākea Web, e hoike ana i online, moolelo o ka kumuhana a me nā papahana.

Kona kiʻiona hiʻona o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho o nā pōkiʻi. Nā kumu moe i loko o ka mea ana keiki pinepine mai i manaoio ma kona iho make. No ka laʻana, maoli makemake e hana he pepehi anaʻia iā iho wale 10% o ka 100, a e ho'āʻo ana i ke koena i,ʻo wale i ka noonoo ana o ka hoahanau, hoa, a ua aloha aku ka poʻe. Ma keia hihia, aia no he demonstrative 'ano o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, a, kekahi e olelo aku, "he pepehi anaʻia iā iho blackmail". Akā, Eia naʻe, e like me ka pāʻani me ka make hiki e ona a hiki accidentally.

Predsuitsidalnoe hana

Oiaio suicidal tendencies ma opiopio kanaka oʻo, a hiki iho, aole ia e hoopuka aku. Inā 'oe e lohe, oe e hai hōʻemi iki loli i loko o ka hana o ka teenager, manao iho la no he pepehi anaʻia iā iho. Ka mea, e unobtrusive, o ka oi aku ina he keiki kanaka prone i ka loneliness. Hooholo suicidal hana hiki e pani ma ka teenager, ma ka inadvertently huki nä hopuna. Inā i ke keiki, aole ia i makemake e kūkākūkā ia ke kumuhana, ka mea, e malama aku i ka hōʻailona no nā mākua.

Me ka mea naʻau a me ka demonstrative ano o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho nā pōkiʻi imi ia,ʻo hoʻolohe i ka pilikia. Boys a me nā kaikamahine subconsciously hoopiha'ē aʻe i makemake 'ākeʻakeʻa mai ka waho. Ka mea, manao ana, e pau ana no lakou.

Kūloko mākaukau no ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho hiki i lilo o ka ikaika loa ka makemake: ka teenager aʻole eʻai i kekahi mea, a hiki nae o kona mua maikai kona'ōpū. ʻO ia ka hana me ka hiamoe:ʻeleu keiki hoomainoinoia au ma ka nawaliwali, a me ka flaccid, conversely, nalowale hiamoe.

Eia hou kekahi, kula hana ana e kolo ana i lalo, kumu pinepine ohumu o ka inattention. Ma keia hihia, ina he kumu nana ole aku i ka pilikia, ka mea, o na makua ma ka makua-kumu hālāwai. Loira he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, ke kumu a me ka Kāohiʻana o kēia kŰia ua pinepine kamaʻilio nui pu me kā lākou mau mākua, a me ka psychologist.

Ua mea hiki ke pale aku he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i loko o adolescents?

He pono, mua o nā mea a pau, e ike i na hana a me ka manaʻo o ke keiki. Oe E mea e pae ole i kekahi loli ma ke keiki ka hana. Oe pono i mea e e oluolu. Pono ka kela keiki i ka manao a me kākoʻo o ka wae.

Life o nā pilikia - ka poe hihia ma i ke keiki e lanakila pu me ko lakou mau makua. Loira Pono e maopopo i nā kanaka, a me na makua aloha mai ia lakou no ka mea ka mea, mea, a me ka hoomaopopo, a kākoʻo iā lākou.

Kaʻao e pili ana i he pepehi anaʻia iā iho

Inā mākou e kamailio e pili ana i he pepehi anaʻia iā iho mai o ka wahi o ka Hawaii o kaʻike manaʻo, e pono ke kūʻai 'ana i kumumanaʻo kekahi kaʻao a me misconceptions pili ana i keia kŰia.

• Pale ai he pepehi anaʻia iā iho mea hiki ole, akā, e hiki haawi aku i ke kanaka e lalana ana ia iloko o ka ulia au o ke ola, malama, maliu, a laila, paha, i ka manaʻo o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, e nalo.
• Aia He He kekahiʻano o ke kanaka, ma ke ano maoli prone i ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho. Here mākou hiki mai'ōlelo maiʻoe wale e pili ana i ke kulana, akā, no hoi e pili ana i kona auhau o ke kanaka.
• Kekahi hoailona hoike ana i ke kumu no ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho mea ole. IeAUPIIe, IAa IO he pepehi anaʻia iā iho ua ike no ia i ka ole-maʻamau hana o ka teenager.
• Teenager hiki hōʻike he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, akā, nā mākua pinepine lawe ia me he'ōlelo hoʻomakeʻaka. E like me ka hopena, ma hope ka mea i ike i ke keiki ia ia iho kuhikuhi i ka hiki hopena.
• Suicidal pāʻoihana e hele koke, me ka makaukau. Nā hualoaʻa hōʻike i ka ulia pili me kekahi ikehu he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, hiki mau anywhere mai 2 pule a hiki i kekahi mau mahina.
• Ole he pepehi anaʻia iā iho 'ole e hana hou. 'O kēia ka nui misconception. Inā ka teenager i hana ai e like me kaʻAʻole eʻole keʻanuʻu, ke kamepiula kiʻekiʻe o ka hana hou ia ho'āʻo. Paha repetition ua manaoia ma ka ia 2 mahina.
• Hereditary inclination e he pepehi anaʻia iā iho. 'Aʻohe mau hoao keia olelo.
• Ke he pepehi anaʻia iā iho pākēneka Ua hoole mai markedly manawa a hiki i ka aoao o ka Media, a me ka Internet. Akā, i ka Media e ole haʻi'ē aku i ka oiaio o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, a me ke kulana, ma muli o ia i ka mea hiki ke hooki.
• Alcohol - i kahi mea paahana e kōkua mokuhia e mai i ka pahale manaʻo. Ua Ua ho'āʻo ai i ke kanawai o ka waiʻona i hiki ke nana e hoole. Aia no he kue aggravation, mahuahua uunu nui. More ma mua o ka hapalua o ka suicides iloko i loko o ka moku'āina o kanakaʻona mau intoxication.

Ano hiʻona predsuitsidalnyh hana

Predsuitsidalnoe i emi iho i ka moku'āina o ka teenager hiki ia ma luna o nā kēia mau hiʻona:

1. Aia, Ua lena Lele i loko o ka naʻau i loko o ke keiki:ʻo ia i hoʻomaka e kue me ka hoa a me ka 'ohana.
2. Ke teenager Ua prone i ma-dramatization o ke kaua.
3. He pepehi anaʻia iā iho me ka kuanaʻike he keiki ka, ia mea i kekahi mea ikaika a me ka wiwoʻole.
4. Ke hana Ua demonstrative ano, i kekahi mea e like "me ka hihiu a hiki i ka lehulehu."
5. I ka hana o ka teenager mea he aloha ia, i ka mea, i ole, manao iho la mai kona mau hana a me paʻewa ai.
6. Inept koho ana o ka mea no ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho: ka mea haʻahaʻa papahele papa, ai '-ʻawahia waiwai no kaʻapu kōheoheo a lahilahi kaula.

manaʻoʻike aku ana

Poe akamai i nei hoomaka e noiʻi i nā kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i waena o adolescents. ʻike manaʻo - ka 'epekema e kōkua i ka ike a pau, ao ke ano o keia pukana. He aha ka maopopo o ia i ka hapanui o nā pōkiʻi hana he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, i loko o kona manao. Akā, he nui manaʻo e wale he mentally kakouv keiki mea hiki no ia i kekahi,ʻAʻole eʻole ka anu u. Auwe, ia mea ole.

A pau i ka mea i nā kumu, no ka mea, adolescents mea ma puberty,ʻoiaʻiʻo mai i makemake ia, mai i maopopo a mahalo. Kēia mau kino i ka hoao ana e alakai ai i ka oiaio o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho.

I 13-16 makahiki, e na kanaka ui, a me na wahine mea paakiki e Makuakane me ka "hale" makua pilikia. Next i ke keiki e e na makua a me ka hanauna, ka poe e hiki, e hoouna aku ia i ke ala pololei.

hooloihi ae i kaumaha

Hooloihi ae i kaumaha - he pilikia loa o ka i keia la o nā pōkiʻi. Ma keia hihia mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana loa noʻonoʻo aʻe kāna hana. Here oe ke hui aku i ka lāʻau, a me ka waiʻonaʻawahia 'ino, a noi aku nui kālā dala.

Pinepine, aia no na hihia a pau i ka wa a ke keiki me ka ae ole o na makua i lawe i ka hale mau waiwai, jewelery a me ka 'ike loea e loaʻa i ke kālā no kekahi mahele lāʻau. A hiki i ka aihue mai i, ka teenager hoʻoholo i ka hana he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i mea e pale aku i ke kuleana pilikino no kā lākou mau hana.

Ua mea waiwai ka mea e kamailio ai i kāu keiki no he pepehi anaʻia iā iho?

E pono anei au e hoʻomaka me ka keiki i mea kamaʻilio e pili ana i he pepehi anaʻia iā iho? No, ia mea,ʻaʻole pono. No ka mea, na i kamaʻilio ma luna o kēia mau kumuhana hooeueu ae i ke keiki i ka uku, no ka mea, e like me ko oukou ike ana, a pau ka papaia i makemakeia.

Olelo ana i keia mea, i ka pauʻoi mea e converge i ka hewa a me ka kolohe o ia ka hana. No ka laʻana, ua hiki e hōʻike 'ia ma ke alo o ka ai na hana hoihoi mea, akā, i kēia mau keiki, e ole ike i kekahi mea e hiki mai ana.

Pehea e ao aku i ke keiki. kupono Kāohi

Ua mea hiki ke pale aku ia i ka hope loa weliweli, e like me ka mea he pepehi anaʻia iā iho o nā pōkiʻi? Makaʻu i alakaʻi ai i ka manawa kūpono o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, e e maopopo, ina au e uku kokoke noonoo i na minute:

1. Kelepona i kamaʻilio a me ka pono eʻauʻau kai me ka hoa. Inā ke keiki ua mau loa hoala mai ai i ke kahe o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, a laila, paha oe e hoʻolohe iā ia.
2. Hamau, loneliness a me ka ikaika lakou makemake ole e manawalea.
3. Moʻokalaleo, heluhelu ana i ke keiki. Books E e haawiia mai kūikawā noonoo. Inā i ke keiki 'aʻole e heluhelu puke, malia e kiai i kēia wikiō.
4. Songs a me nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni.

He? Oaiua e kanaka hoʻoponopono i nā kahua, a i kipa ma ka teenager. ʻO wai lā ka hua hou papahana i he kūlana hopena ma luna o ke kanaka psyche, a oi loa aku hoi wā kamaliʻi a me ka adolescence.

Unobtrusive, hui pu ia me ka mana, maʻamau pilina a me ka launa pu, a me na makua i ke keiki ka e kōkua i kou daze Makuakane me ka huli makahiki ulia me kekahi io hopena. E haawi hou, a lailaʻoe e aʻo i ka ike i ka'āno'ē hana ana o ke keiki, a no kaʻike kona kumu. A me ka Kāohiʻana o adolescent he pepehi anaʻia iā iho o kaʻoi loa ma ka noonoo ana a me ka malama ana o na keiki.