No ke aha la e kaikamahine manaʻo i nā keikikāne i Smarter ma mua o ka mea, i?

Loa kaikamahine, ina oe e noi aku e pili ana i kā lākou mau punahele kumuhana i loko o ke kula a pau, aolie e pane ia oe, e ka moʻokalaleo a me ke akamai. A me kaʻiʻo hoʻohui i ka mai i makemake makemakika. Ke kumu no keia hiki e ilihune hanaia ma keia kumuhana. Girls o nā makahiki a pau, i na prejudices e pili ana i kā lākou nā mea hiki. Eia hou, ka mea, ua ikaika nui ae ia paha ma mua o nā keiki kāne, ke i haʻahaʻa ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia. A me kēia manawa nei i paʻi noiʻi hōʻike ana ma kahi o nā makahiki oʻAberama kaikamāhine hoʻomaka i ka manaʻo i nā keiki i Smarter ma mua o ka mea, i.

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Kēia mau mea, ua ulu i paʻiʻia ma ka puke pai Science. Ma ke ao, noiʻi i he okoa hana pūʻulu o 5-7-makahiki-Nalani Olds. No ka laʻana, i loko o ka pilikia mua ka mea, hai aku la i na keiki i ka moʻolelo e pili ana i ka loa akamai ke kanaka, me ka hea aku la ia ia i ke kahua hahi. He mea pono e loaʻa mai keiki. Akā, i ka wā noi ka mea i kēia akamai kanaka - i ke kanaka, ai ka wahine - he kaikamahine mua ma mua o na makahiki eono, ua koho mākou i ke koho mua. Nolaila, kaikamahine i kekahi pinepine hoole i ka lealea a i i allegedly manao no "ʻoi aku ko lākou aloha e ka iʻa keiki." Naʻe, i ka muli iho kaikamahine, ka poe i 'aʻole naʻei paʻa i ka makahiki o ka 6, aole ana mau prejudices.

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Kekahi o ka poe akamai, nana i wehewehe i kēia mau mea, ua ulu ua Hizer Pressli, hope pelekikena o ka iaaiey no kaikamahine ma luna o ka holo (GOTR). Ua nā kahu nānā i ka hooulu ana o ka papahana no ka hoʻolālā o physical haʻawina no nā kaikamāhine ma ka papa 3-8 a me ka mea no hoi i ke kumu ma mua, i ka doctorate i loko o ka hoʻonaʻauao.

Pressly mai nei i ka hopena o keia ao,ʻaʻole he unexpected. Loa paha, ua hanaʻia kēia stereotype no laila, i ka hapanui o nā kaikamāhine e hele ana i ke kula o ka makahiki o eono, a, nolaila, olohelohe ia lakou i ka aoao o nā kanaka, nona ka manao i ke biased. School, kumu, nā mākua a me nā haumāna i inadvertently kāhea i kēia mau manaʻo i loko o kaikamahine.

Pressley paipai i na kumu a me ka luna o ke kula ke aelike me ka stereotype i keikikane i Smarter ma mua o na kaikamahine, a hiki inadvertently hele ia ma luna o ke keiki, unuhi aku la ia i ko lakou noonoo ana i kekahi mau mea. Eia hou, e kōkua i nā kaikamahine e koho i koho e Komo i ke alo o ke talena. Kēia i hāʻawi maopopo na keiki i tālena a me ka ikaika ka mea, hiki e ulu, oiai o ka hiki i ka makemakika a me ka 'epekema ma ka mau, a ma laila mai ka hānau paha ole.

Kristin Karruters, he lapaʻau psychologist e specializes ma ADHD a me ka hana kāna hana, e like me keia manao.

Carruthers mai la oia i ka palena papaha haʻahaʻa manao o na kaikamahine ke hoʻololi lākou noʻonoʻo nā mea hiki, ina e mau hoolea aku ia no lākou e piʻi like. No kekahi laʻana, e hiki ke hoolea aku i kana kaikamahine no ka mea, ua pono e huli i ka waiwai e lilo aku ana o kūʻai lilo mai kekahi i loko o ka mākeke nui, a ua loaa ka hoailona maikai no ka makemakika hoao. Kēia e kōkua i ke kaikamahine pakiko-nani a me ka hoʻoponopono-ka wiwo ole. Na makua e hoomanao oe i haʻahaʻa ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia i loko o ka lōʻihi manawa e loli i ke koho ana o ke kulanui a me ka 'oihana. Kekahi o na kaikamahine, e noonoo pono lakou ia lakou iho i he akamai, e hōʻalo mai o ka mea maoli makemake e hana i loko o ke ola, e like no ka mea, makemake e kue ana i ka manao o ke kaiāulu.

Ke koho ana o kaʻoihana

Women kamaʻilioʻana, e koho i ka lakou oihana, i ole e pili pū ana i ka 'epekema, makemakika a me ka' ike loea, no ka mea, e mea maʻa mau kēia mau kanaka manaoia e e "pilikia" no ia. E like me ka hoike ana o ka National Research Center Student Clearinghouse, emi ma mua o 30% o nā wāhine i loko o 2014, puka 'o ia mai ke Kulanui me ka nui ma ka' epekema a me ka hana 'enekinia. Eia hoʻi, i kēia huahelu ulu ma wale 1% ma luna o ka hopeʻumi makahiki.

Ka hopena o ka haʻahaʻa ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia

Low ka hoʻoponopono-nani ke no hoi ia i ke kamepiula ololi no nā pilikia, e like me ka iini, kaumaha, ke kaupaonaʻana ka waiwai a me ka ai ana kāna hana, a ma hope e loli 'ē aʻe, ao ke ano o ke ola. Eia hou, ka nele o ka hilinai pinepine hiki aku ai i ka pilikia ma ka pili ma.

He aha hana mākua

Change stereotypes hiki makua. Eia mea e hana ai ka mea pono e hana ai.

1. I ka manawa a pau e hai aku i kana kaikamahine ia ia ke hana nā mea a pau makemake, ina ua pili.

2 Ua pili like i ke kaikamahine a me ke keiki. Inā 'oe i noi mai no ke kaikamahine, e kōkua me nā ipu, mai poina i ka haawi aku i ka mea hana a puni i ka hale, a me kana keiki.

3. uku noonoo ana i ka stereotypical kūlana o na wahine, i mea hōʻike i ka Media a ma luna o ka Internet. Inā e ike, no ka laʻana, e like me ka wikiō, hana ia e like me ke aʻo minute, a kamailio e pili ana ia i kā lākou poʻe keiki.

4. Inā 'oe i ka wahine i mea i ka maikai a Mānoa ÷ a kamailio e pili ana ia i kā lākou poʻe keiki. Ua hiki e ka haʻuki hōkū a me ka hōʻike, a no kekahi laʻana, kou hoa, ka luna hoʻokele o ke kula, a hiki i ka haumāna mai ka papa mai o ka oukou mau keiki, i mea he haumāna maikaʻi loa.

Akā loa importantly, e pono e lilo i ka maikai laʻana e hahai. Children kamaʻilioʻana e haʻi hou aku i na makua hana, i mea e olelo mai. Inā kekahi kaikamahine i kona makuwahine ua noho pilikia ana ia ia iho, pela me ka pili ana i ka mea nana, a pehea ia ka akamai, bebe hoʻomaka e noho ma konaʻano.

E hoomanao i ka makuwahine e e haʻaheo o ko lakou iho a me kā lākou e piʻi like. Wale ma ka hana ana i kēia, e e hiki ke ao aku kaikamāhine, e hana i ka ia, a no ka ike i ka ka mea, ua ku pono hana a pau a lakou e makemake ka mea.