No ke aha la i na wahine hou paʻakikī e negotiate?

A lohe o nā wāhine i loko o ka hana 'ole, e hele mai i ka halawai ana me kekahi ikehu Client, iʻole e haha aku ka paulele aku i ka naʻe e lawe wahi ma ke' ano kumu o ka manaʻo no ka ia. Lovely wāhine, ka poe i 'Imi kaua no ka like, initially underestimated kona mau ikaika. Nā mea kūʻai mai haha mea maalea, no laila, hilinaʻi ka hapanui kanaka. Loa pinepine i mea kamaʻilio hele mai i ka standstill a hoʻohiolo nō. Business hoapili ia i manawa no ka noʻonoʻo, ka mea, olelo pomaikai e kapa aku hoʻi, akā, IeAUPIIe, IAa IO hana ole.

Ka mea oiaio i na wahine inaina aku i ka ke kūkā '?

E like me aeia ma limahana o ka nui poʻe, ka mea, inaina e negotiate. Ua ko Hawaiʻi a me ka unnerving kaʻina, heʻano o ka holoholona hihiu me ka rula, he makau no ia. E na kanaka, ma ka mea ku ole, haha noho nanea ana ma ka poepoe papaʻaina, a me na hoalawehana a me ka Loaʻaʻia nā mea kūʻai mai. Oe e paha e haohao,ʻaʻole wahine ka makemake ole e negotiate hoʻonāwaliwali lākou hoʻomoana ka wā e hele mai i ka uku. Oiai, mai 1963, i ka loaa nahā i emi mai kānaka, ma ka mea, i kēia mau kii i mamao mai like. Women nō loaʻa emi o na kanaka, o ka oi aku ka wā e hele mai ai i ka lāhui 'ê.

Nā kumu no ke ola ana o ka uku nahā i

E like me ka poe akamai, i ke kahe o ka uku hoʻokahi mea pololei nā i ka makemake ole o na wahine, e negotiate. Kēia mea he nui loa eiiieaen hilo, e pono no i ka nui mahele ana. Kekahi 'ikepili helu hōʻike i na wahine makemake e noho ma ke kua o ka oi'ōlelo nā kānaka, nā ikepili paipai ole ia. A me na mea kiekie oia ka pahu hopu hoonoho ia e hoʻomaka i ka hana wahine, o ka oi paha ia mea i mea e puʻe wale mai ia e negotiate me nā mea mālama mai. Eia naʻe, i loko o keia hihia, ia mea,ʻaʻole'ōnaehana paleʻea i ka ole.

Ka nui kaiapili koina

Oe e e haohao o, akā, e like ma ka hihia o ka maikaʻi hope o nā kūkā 'mea he hana maikai o ka limahana, kona hope, a me ka paipai' ana i maikai manaʻo mai i kumu hoʻomalu kiekie uku. A me keia aʻole i manaʻo 'ia ka loa pāʻoihana wahine mahalo' kā lākou hana emi. Ka mea, e like me pinepine me ka ikaika ke keka, e noi aku i kou aʻa Makehewa uku māhuahua, wale 25% o ka manawa paha i emi e loaa ka affirmative pane. "A no ke aha la i ka maluhiluhi, e hana ana i 10 hola o ka lā, inā e hele undetected kou pono?" - no laila, manaʻo kekahi hapa o ka oihana hana, a aole makemake ole i kekahi manawa hou kiola aku la i ka mentality aʻo nui.

Noke mau kino i nā wāhine i loko o nā kūkā '

Mua, Loaʻaʻia hoalawehana a me nā mea kūʻai mai initially negatively manaʻo e negotiate, ka wā e aʻo ana i ka wahine, e hōʻike i mua o lākou. Hoohanau stereotypes mea nō e noho i loko o ka lewa o kekahi hana 'ole. Men initially ike like me ka ikaika, maopopo koʻu manao i kanaka, no laila, nā mea kūʻai mai haha aku ia ia i ka nui loa o ka wiwo ole. Eʻauʻau kai a me na wahine mea pono no ka mea, no ka mea, hehi iho "pilikia interlocutor." A hiki i ka wahine i hele mai i ka naʻe, ka mea, ua like me ka paakiki ole e formulate i kona mau manaʻo, akā, somehow me emi ka naauao. Penei,ʻaʻohe mea i ka wahine ia ia, Ua initially ike me ka undesirable "truce." Nolaila ka nui likeʻole i loko o ka hoʻokō 'ana i ka maikaʻi hope o ke kūkā'.

No ke aha la na wahine e tolerant o haʻahaʻa ka uku?

He nui no mākou mai i manaʻo e pili ana i ana i ka oko ao ma ka uku ma waena o nā kānaka a me nā wāhine. Babare mai Stenni Ua paʻi i ka puke "mea huna o ka wahine eono", kahi i loko o ka hoʻomaka o ka mea heluhelu ua haawiia mai i kekahi mau manaʻo e pili ana i ke kumu o ka maikai ke keka, e loaʻa emi. Kekahi paha e-Liloa o keia huahana, ina e makemake ia i ka protagonists makemake ole e maoli na wahine, ka pâʻani ano a piha hoakaka i haawiia mai. Eia ua mau hiʻona na wahine, ka poe i chronically underpaid: ka mea, i ke kiʻekiʻe ke ahonui, no ka haʻahaʻa uku, ka mea, underestimate kā lākou mau uea, ua makaukau hoi e hana ma luna o ka mohai kumu, ka mea ho'āpono aku i ka ilihune o ke ano hanohano, a me ka inaina i ka negotiate.

Ano e ole ai kiʻekiʻe loaʻa kālā

Mākou e hele ma nā mea a pau kēia mau hiʻona i hou au mamuli. I ka maikaʻi anal i loko o kā lākou mau nuipa i ke kiʻekiʻe ke ahonui, no ka haahaa uku. Ka mea, ike i ka mea hiki ke loaʻa hou, akā,ʻae aku, e waiho mai me ka meager uku, me ka manaoio aku i ka mea, mea maikaʻi ma mua o kekahi mea i nā mea a pau. Aia ka he underestimation o ka hoʻoponopono-pomaikai like me ka okoa 'oihana naehana. No kekahi, e kahea aku i kēia mau wāhine collaboratorsʻino, a me ka naʻaupō kēia Malia paha. Naʻe, ka mea e hoolaulea ai i kona hopena, a mai e ho'āʻo ana e hoapono ia ia. No kekahi'ē kumu, ka heroine o ka puke Barbara Pōhaku ka pā, manaʻo i ka mea e, aole uku pono.

No ka laʻana, ka mea, mea loa ana pili i nā mea kākau a me na kumu. Nā 'elele o kēiaʻoihana kahuna, ai, e ho'āpono aku i ka alo o ka uku uku makemake e hana "no ka manaʻo." Ka mea, e like me ka mea a lakou i hana ai, no laila, ka mea i ake lakou eʻae haʻahaʻa uku. Kekahi wahine i hoʻohana e hoapono ia kona wahi haʻahaʻa koi no kā lākou mau hana, me ka manaoio aku i kā lākou mau hana a me ka 'Oihana e mai i ka uku ma luna ma mua o kaʻawelike uku. Inā mau wāhine i ka manawa kūpono e hana overtime, akā, no ka uuku uku, ka mea e hele aku i keia anu u, e hoomanao ana i ka haku hana e ole e kaumaha aku i nā manawaʻelua.

No ke aha la noi no i hoala mai i ka paakiki loa?

Ka hapa nui o nā huapalapala i loko o kēia puke inaina naʻe me ka mana i pili i ka uku, piʻi pū. Ka mea, e reluctant e, hoʻomaoe hou akula i ka hua, e like me ka makau hopena nui. No kekahi laʻana, e makemake e kiʻi hou aku i ke kālā, a hele e hai aku i kona aʻa Makehewa. A laila, e hoʻonui i ka inaina o ka haku hana ke manao wale. Ma ke kānāwai, i ka 'ano moʻokalaleo Ke o kela mea keia mea o oukou, mālama, e huki i ka blanket ma luna iho. Ka Make Loa Aʻole makemake ole eʻuwao me ke kālā keu, e like me oe ka wai mulea ia mea i kou akamai pū nō hoʻi i ke kumu kūʻai o hou. Akā laila ka manaʻo o ia i hookaawaleiaʻe la koke me oe, e lawe i kou wahi inexperienced intern, ua e puka 'o ia mai ke kula nui. Ma na olelo e ae, e ua ike hoi, e huli i ke poo o kou wahi oi ma mua o kekahi moho. A e kau mai i mau wahine a me ka haʻahaʻa uku, oiai e kau mai i ka puka. Kēia e nānā i oe paa i hiki i keia wahi a me ka mea e noi aku ai.

Ilihune - mea i hewa

A pau o kēia mau wāhine manaoio iʻilihune mea maikai. Ka mea, manaʻo eʻilihune hiki ke equated me ka pono, a me ka waiwai, - i ka manaʻo'ālunu a me ka hope. Ua maikaʻi ke keka ma ke akea i aku nei au ia kala - mea ino. O ka holo ana, ina he wahine lawe ma luna o ke kookoo o ka poe nui, ka mea e ole pii mai o ko lākouʻaoʻao, e hooiaio i ka mea iʻoi aku ma mua o nā kānaka. Ma ka aka, ia mea me ka nui makemake ole e negotiate ai a make haalele aku i kēia kuanaʻike. Akā, iā na wahine downplay i kona piʻi like, a romanticize hune, Loaʻaʻia nā mea mālama mai e hoopii mai nei ia i kokoke naʻau, i ka nele i ka assertiveness a me ka haahaa mākau. 'O kēia pehea kaʻao a i hanau hoohanau. Nā haku mai i mahalo na wahine i ka hana pono, a laila, e'ōlelo aku i nā manawa a pau kā lākou limahana mea,ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi mea sensible.

Ka nele o ka assertiveness

Ma fairness mea e e kaulana ia i kuʻu mai me ka pono ole "kane" ano e i manaoia nui i loko o ke kūkā 'wahine. I ka nele o ka aggressiveness a me ka unwillingness e 'alo e ka maikaʻi hope o ka naʻe nō paʻakikī e loaʻa ai. Careerists e hoailona oukou:ʻAʻohe mea hiki ole no ka poe i AIM a mau hone lākou mākau. Mai Mai manaʻo e pili ana i ka naʻe me he ala e mahuahua loaʻa kālā. Manaʻo o ka mea me he mau anoe o kou 'oihana kūpono.