Pehea e hoʻokuʻikahi i ka makua, ina ka mea, ua manao e kiʻi hemo?

Keiki eʻike piʻi ka hardest māheleʻana makuahine a me ka makuakāne, no ka mea, na kanaka elua, he mau hoʻopuniʻana, a me ka punahele maoli kanaka no ke keiki. O ka holo ana, koke loaa ino kūkala nūhou i kekahi keiki, a me ka kaikamahine ma hope o (a keiki paha kaikamahine - makahiki, aole ia pāʻani i ke kūlana) i loko o ke poo hoʻomaka e milo manaʻo ma pehea e hoʻokuʻikahi i nā mākua.

E hiki wale mai i?

E e mälama mākou: ina o ka makuahine, a me ka makua kāne seriously makemake e haʻalele, a me ka hoike ua haawiia keia i ka Luna, Ane hiki i kekahi aoao, e kōkua. Mea pōmaikaʻi, he mau 'ia ka wā e hoola i ka make i ke kai mare meaʻoia iʻo. He hiki ina ua he deliberate a me ka naʻauao, a me ka flighty, a me ka manawa e Emotions i nā mākua 'olelo hooholo.

Leo o ka wahine kāne hemo paha, neʻe maila i kona makuwahine (kou kupuna wahine), bito kēia mea kūʻai, i nā waimaka, ka hoahanau ole - e like scary mea e like mea i ole nana i ka hapa, ka mea hiki ole ke kapaia he hoailona oiaio o ka pōʻino e hiki mai hoʻohemo. Scandals ana, Emotions poutihnut, pono kekahi manaʻo hoʻopiʻi kū'ē e lanakila, a me ka makemake e haʻalele i ke kanaka me ka mea ana i noho ai no kekahi mau makahiki, a i ke keiki nalowale. O ka holo ana, e koi, a hoʻi i ka mea mua Track hala me 'āwīwī i hiki, ka mea i pono, e hoolaulea mākua i kā lākou mau keiki - ma hope o nā mea a pau, ka mea o ka papa kuhikuhiE loulou e hoʻohuiʻia nāʻaoʻaoʻelua, a me ka panina.

Ia mea,ʻaʻole e pono ke inflate mai o molehills

Children ke hākilo loa ike pāonioni paʻa o nā mākua, ka oi aku ina he kanaka maoli makuwahine a me ka makuakane. Ka hope hiki wale i ke kaua, a ma hope o ka hapalua o ka hora hoihoi, ua maikai ana, oiai ke keiki e noho ana i loko o kona lumi, a ua hele ma, manao ana pehea e hoʻokuʻikahi i ka makua, ina e makemake e oki mare, eia nae ka mea, i kekahi like pāʻoihana i ka pilikia, a hiki ma ʻAʻole au i manaʻo. Heʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻohe keiki ma hope ona nakrichit makuahine paha Papai 'aʻole i manaʻo i ka mea makemake, e kipaku mai i ka hale. ʻO ia kulana home 'ole me ka ae o ka makua ke kue ana.

Mākua pinepine paio, a me keia e i eʻae. Iloko o na makahiki lōʻihi o ke ola a me ka manawa o ka upbringing o ke keiki i loko o nā aʻalolo o ka hapanui o na kanaka a me na wahine i nawaliwali. I kekahi manawa a pau e pono e hoolei mai i ka mahu, a, Eia naʻe, ka hapanui pinepine "ma ka lima" mea e mau hoapili, no laila, i ka mea e hanaiiaʻi mea e pono pono ia ia. Eia naʻe, i kēia lāʻoe e aʻo pehea e hoʻokuʻikahi i ka makua, ina ka mea, i ke kaua, a hiki kōkua hoihoi ohana lokahi.

Makakū kokoke ana i ka pilikia

E huli i ka poe a pau e hiki ai hui makua kiʻi paʻi, a e kekahi wikiō hoʻoponopono alodio pasting o nā kiʻi a me nā mele. No lailaʻoe e ole wale hana makuakane a me ka makuwahine maikaʻi akā i hea aku i ko lākou maikaʻi Memories o nā hanana i hoikeia. E hoomakaukau oukou i ka pilialoha awakea. Paha oe i ho'āʻo e hana i kekahi culinary masterpiece no oe ia oe iho, a kuai i na mea a pau i loko o ka hale kūʻai, e like me ka loihi me oe i makuahine a me ka Papai loaa pu i kekahi papaʻaina, a ua hele aku lakou ia lakou iho anywhere - i loko o kou keʻena, a no ka hele.

E (no ka mea, ka mea e ku imua o) e ike i kekahi Comedy. Sami i noho, wale koho i mea maoli he kūoʻo hōʻike, maikaʻi loa me ka pilialoha overtones. E nānā i hui pu me uplifting hula he kūlana.

Hooponopono, i ka makua i ka uuku manaʻo - heʻano o kekahi-kanaka i ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni. Oe ke hula, mele, e hai aku i kekahi mau he kūoʻo moʻolelo paha ole, etc.

A pau, e oe i kekahi mau koho ma pehea e hoʻokuʻikahi i ka makua, ina aole lakou e ole olelo, hina ole ma kekahi i kekahi, a i ole ia kaua. I ka papa kuhikuhiE mea mea e hōʻike manaʻo, a hana nā mea a pau me ka uhane. Ina nā kiʻina hana mai i ke kōkua, makuahine a me ka Papai kaulana, a mahalo i na hana o kana keiki.

Puʻe ma Emotions

Kumu a me na makua, a me ma ka liʻiliʻi loa i kekahi o ia (i, ma ka huli, o kona pii ana i ka waiho mai i ka lua o ka) hiki e noʻonoʻo, o ka oi aku ina 'oe makemake e he mau makahiki. Ke kaikaina i ke keiki, me ka paʻakikī i ka mea mea e wehewehe i nā kumu no ka oki mare, i kekahi manaʻo hoʻopiʻi paha māheleʻana. E ka nana aku kao kaumaha maka, a ninau aku i ka makua ole hou hoohiki - a pau, ma ka liʻiliʻi loa koʻu makuwahine, ua maule iho la ia.

Manaʻo e pili ana i ka wā o nā mākua kamailio e pili ana i kaʻaoʻao pilialoha o kona ola - e pili ana i ka hoalauna, mua lā, he kūoʻo lanakila, ahaaina mare, Kauai, etc. A laila, paipai kēlā me kēiaʻaoʻao o ka pēnēia minute, a ninau aku au ia oe, e hai aku ia oe ia oe iho .. Ma ka hihia mua ia e e maikaʻi ināʻoe e ole kaupalena 'ia e'ōlelo, akā, e hōʻike i nā kiʻi a me nā wikiō i loko o ka hauʻoli loa lā.

Puʻe ma ka rationality a me ke kūpili

No laila, e ike, e like me ka makua, e hoolauleaʻike hoʻokumu a me ka 'ehaʻeha o ki ina hana like. Eia naʻe, ina oe e hou i ke keiki, ka mua mau kiʻina hana hiki ole hana. Akā, e ka Logical manaʻo hoʻopiʻi kū'ē, a me ka huli i kaʻae like hoʻokuʻu ma kahai. Inā na makua i ma paʻewa paha e ole kamailio, a laila ka mea, ua i ke kumu. Mua o nā mea a pau ia mea pono e möakäka hou a me ka ninaninau akahele hoʻolohe i kēlā me kēiaʻaoʻao - hoʻokolohua o kekahi mea, e oiaio no e okoa. No ia mea, pehea na makahikiʻoe i e, oe i ka manawa e lilo objectively "Nui," inā wale nō, no ka mea makua poha io Emotions, a hiki apuepue'ōlelo sensibly a me ka maluhia, i ka wa e hele mai e hakaka, a me ka lua o ka hapalua.

A laila, e pono ana, e hōʻike i ke kahua, mai nāʻaoʻaoʻelua o ke kaua. I ka papa kuhikuhiE mea i ka hakakā i ole ai hoʻoponopono, e like me kipi - i na wahine mea pono ke aloha. maopopo ka wā nā mākua i ke ahiahi, he keiki ka hoomaopopo i ka pukana oi ma mua o ka mea e, ka mea hiki e ala i ka pono hoohalike a me ko lakou lunamanao.

Oe ke'āpuhi wale i kekahi wahi: e hai aku Mom i Pāpā manao e e ka maluhia me ia, akā, 'aʻole i ike i ka hana ia, a laila huli ka ia noaia i kona makua kāne. E like me ka hopena, na makua, e manaʻo ana e kakali ana no ka aoao e hoihoi i ka lākiō o ka lua o kanaka, a me ka lakou ia lakou iho e hele e halawai me kekahi i kekahi. I ka manao e pili ana i oki Ua hiki no e maopopo makua o kaʻulaʻula lipine paperwork, mahele o ka waiwai a me ke keiki, me ka hope hoʻokaʻawale, etc.

He pono nō, olelo hooweliweli a me ka blackmail

I mea, keia iaoia mea,ʻaʻole loa maikaʻi, akā, ka wāʻaʻohe'ē aʻe kāu kiʻina hana mai i ke kōkua, ia mea pono e hoʻohana kaumaha mea kaua - i loko o ke kaua, ua maikai a pau loa. No laila, makuahine a me ka makua kāne always kā lākou mau keiki, i kekahi manawa e oi ma mua o kekahi i kekahi. Inā ka mea, Emo ole hoʻomaopopo i kā lākou mau keiki, he mai, oe, e lilo i ka mea maoli pomaikai e hoʻokuʻikahi i nā mākua. ka mea, ua hemo wale ana, e hana ia paha e mai i kamaʻilio ai i kekahi i kekahi, - i keia, aole ia e mea. Inā e ike i ke keiki punahele mea maʻi,ʻaʻole e manao ana pono a me ka mea mau naau, e akoakoa ana ma Kāʻeokūlani, ke hoʻoponopono i ka pilikia.

Maoli ai, e hana i kekahi notoriously pilikia mau mea me ia mea hiki ole. Pela no oe e hoouna aku, aole i hiki i kekahi psychologist ma mua o mihi. A, nā mākua hoʻomaka e'Āhewa kekahi i kekahi, a aggravate i ke kulana. Ma ka hapanui o na hihia, ma ka mea e hoʻokuʻikahi i nā mākua, wale "pribolet".

E hiki no hoi, hoʻomaoe hou akula i ka makua i ina e loaa ka wahine hemo la, e kekahi mea hiki ke hana me iho. Ma keia hihia, ma kekahi hihia hiki ole ke pilikia ia lakou iho - wale i nā hua'ōlelo, a he pono nō waleʻimi naʻauao hoʻoweliweli. Eia naʻe, he mea hoʻokahi caveat: ina oe i ka ai kolohe a me kaʻawaʻawa loa aoao, e mālama i kona makuwahine, a me ka makuakane a pau, o ka oi aku oia ina mea mea ike i ke keiki i ka mea, i hou haha no kekahi i kekahi manaʻo, malia o mākou e manaʻo,ʻaʻole e pili ana i ka na makua hōʻoluʻolu ai, a ua pehea e hooki aku i kanaka p',?

kāohi 'ia paha oki mare

E like me ko oukou ike ana, a me kekahi maʻi e e kaua aku i loko o ka maka. I ka hihia, ka mea, ua pinepine scandals. O ka holo ana, kekahi manaʻo hoʻopiʻi kū'ē, a me ka pololei, - i kēia mea,ʻaʻole he piha aupuni kumu hoʻomalu o ka forthcoming'opi. A, kekahi Leomakana malama ia i na ala o ka hunaahi i loko o ka pili. Akā, ia mea maikaʻi, e hoomalu aku ia lakou iho, aʻaʻole e io Emotions a me ka huhuʻoluʻolu o na makua a me ka hoonele ia o ko lākou kahiko mehana aloha.

E ho'āʻo ina he mea hiki, e komo i loko o kā lākou mau lealea nā kūpuna hui huakaʻi, huakaʻi a hiki i ka hale kūʻai 'ole ka hōʻike, e kiai ana kiʻiʻoniʻoni ma ka hale, heʻano o ia hoʻi, ka papa, kāleka, a ua nui no hoi na lealea. Ua mea i hiki ke kōkua kona makuwahine, a me ka makuakane a puni ka hale, no ka mea, i kekahi manawa, he mea scandals mai kūikawā, no ka mea hoike, i ka wa a kaʻaoʻaoʻelua hiki ole hoʻoholo i washes mau kīʻaha a lawe mai i ka ioni?. E oluolu e hana, a me ka mea mua a me ka lua, akā,ʻaʻole i ke manaʻo e pili ana pehea e hoʻokuʻikahi i ka makua, no ka mea, na kēia ho'āla kaua-ka mea e makemake ai ole. Ua mea i kupono e hoʻolauna a e kekahi 'ohana mooolelo - ka mea, i hui makuahine, E Pāpā a me kā lākou mau keiki.

Love makua kāne a me kona makuwahine, a ua aʻo mai lākou mau hewa

O na mea a kāu kiʻina hana o ka hoolaulea makua e koho, mau aloha ia a me ka mai i hūnā lākou mau manaʻo. Paha makuahine a me ka Papai he uuku ho'ēmi aku kekahi i kekahi. Naʻe, ina e manao kou oiaio ke aloha, a me ka manaʻo oki mare. Kaupalena naʻe, ma ka mea ku ole, e 'ike ka mea, ma ka pili ana i kekahi i kekahi,ʻaʻole wale nō manao aloha, aka i mahalo mai paha, no ka mea, ka mea, ua hiki ke lawe pu ia i kekahi keiki e pono ai.

Ka mea, e hiki i ka hihia i ka oki paha i - i loko o kekahi hihia oe, e kiʻi i ka OE ka hoao ana. Kiai ana i ko lakou mau makua, oe e ike (maikaʻi loa - e hoomanao, a e lawe i helu) i kekahi hewa i loko o kā lākou mau wā e hiki mai ana e e käpae ', ka mea hiki ke hanaia ma ka pau wahi, i hiki o oukou paio ana, a pehea e kūkulu kona piko a me kona mau lua hapalua.