Pehea hana oe i ike ia 'oe makemake e ma ke aloha: i ka papa kuhikuhiE symptoms o "aloha maaweawe"

Inā 'oe i madly i loko o ke aloha ke kanaka uʻi, akā,' aʻole 'oe nō teryashsya koho koke ihola nō me kēia mea aloha e haha aku iā ia, a, nolaila, pehea e ke hoomau aku, hoolei daisies a me tarot pepa. E ho'āʻo i maopopo ia oe iho i ka mea e pane i ka nīnau: "? Pehea la oe i ike i ka haule ana ma ka aloha" Inā e loaʻaʻoe iāʻoe iho i loko o ka kēia mau "symptoms", oe E manaʻo e pili ana.

1. nānā 'ole o ka mea au e mumulu mai, i kou mau manao wale no ia ia, ka mea makemake eʻoluʻolu, inā loaʻa iā ia i kēia manawa puni. I koʻu poo e lilo i keʻano o nā wahi, i hiki a me nāʻano, manao ana pehea ia ia ke pane koke i kau mau olelo a me na hana ana. Pehea la oe i ike ai ia oe 'oe i loko o ke aloha? E mau makemake e e kokoke ia ia.

2. E imi e kipa wahi e hoʻoneʻe 'ia paha, e halawai me ia. hoaʻO hana oe i kapa aku ai i ka hele, me ina ma ka ulia, kahi ia pinepine ikeia. No ke aha la i laila - no ka pono o ka mea i uwila i loko o ka mamao, ua makaukau e hele aku ma mua o kekahi keu kilomika o hele oe. Paha oe i like kona mau ala hele (mai ka home a hiki i ke kula 'ole kulanui) pono e e kou ala like' ole a hiki ma kela aoao i kona alanui.

3. kou manao ma ka mea hiki ia he lōʻihi kekahi. Paha oe mau (kekahi mau manawa o ka lā) e hele mai ma luna o kona mau mea ma luna o ka nohona ulana pukapuka, a me ka noʻonoʻo i kona mau kiʻi. Inā e hālāwai ma kahi e, alaila, e nana i ona mau. Malia paha e huli hana ia unconsciously, akā, ma hope nō ike ( 'ole kekahi' oe "ke ake") i oe anei hiki ole lawe i kona mau maka mai ia ia. Pehea la oe i ike ai ia oe 'oe i loko o ke aloha? Oe makemake e nānā aku i ka mea, aole i ka mea ola 'ole ma o ka pale o ke kanaka hoʻoponopono.

oe e ho'āʻo 4. kela a me keia manawa, e maopopo i ka hoailona o ka noonoo ana, e 'oi aku oe, ina paha ma ka ulia a mea i manao ai. E hoʻopaʻanaʻau ka mea, nana, nä hopuna, a laila, eia aʻe e pili ana ia, e noonoo ana i ka mea hiki ke manao me ka mahalo ia oe, ina paha ia mea he kīnā o ka manao? ʻO kekahi mundane hopuna'ōlelo: "? Hi, pehea e oe" Ua mea ia oe i ka maikai, no ka mea, o ka olelo ana ia mea,ʻaʻole indifferent i kou ola, kou kuai paha, a me ka papa, oe ia oe iho.

5. I ka wa e kamailio aku ia ia, oe wale mai i ike. Oe koke lilo aku i kā lākou eloquence, a hoʻomaka e waiho i loko o kā lākou mau impeccably literate olelo hua'ōlelo-parasites ( "Ua pono", " 'ano", "eeee" a no laila, ma luna). I ka mea ia manawa, a me kana mau olelo i hiki ole, e ike oe, ina ia olelo i loko o kaʻike haole 'ōlelo. Pehea la oe i ike ai ia oe 'oe i loko o ke aloha? Kou mau manao a me ka moe e pili ana i ka mea keakea oe, e kālele ana ma luna o kou noho.

6. O na noa a me ka 'ole-noa manawa oe fantasize e pili ana pehea' oe makemake e maikai pu. Eia ka mea,ʻo ia oe lōʻihi-kakali haʻiʻana i ke aloha, akā, e honi ma ka lalani i loko o ka hale kiaka keʻena hope. I kou moe oe i ai hemolele ia e pono i kekahi i kekahi, i kou noho ana ma piha e hilinai ana kona pono hope hāʻule i loko o ke aloha me oe.

7. kou keia manawa, ua maopopo nö iä ia ka mea, a me kona pono, no ka oukou a pau, no ka mea, au e mau kanu i ke kamailio e pili ana i ka mea, a piʻi i kūkākūkā i kekahi mea e pili pū ana me ia. Oe ke olelo e pili ana ia no ka hola ma hope, akā, ... ke kumu ia i ka i kekahi akā oe e mai i na mea, pili hoihoi? Pehea la oe i ike ai ia oe 'oe i loko o ke aloha? 'Ē aʻe ka mea, he pono maʻamau kanaka, akā,ʻo ia mea i ka loa kūikawā a me nā hana no oe.

8. E imi i ka ike hou aku e pili ana i mea ana i ka hoihoi i loko o. E hoʻomaka i ka hoolohe i ka ia mele e like me ia i heluhelu i ka ia mau buke, e makaala kiʻiʻoniʻoni i loko o ka hookahi ano moʻokalaleo Ke. Paha oe a hiki i makau ole e kuai i kekahi skateboard a lole wili skates a kākau ia i loko o nā haʻuki pauku, i kona mālama nei. Inā kekahi ua ole pili me ia, a laila ia mea ole hou hoihoi i loko o oe. Inā na hoa e hele ana i ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni, a me ka ia, aole ia e hele, alaila, e hoole ho film hōʻike. A ia ia i manao, e haʻalele i ke kulanakauhale ( 'oe makemake e maopopo nö iä ia no nā mea a pau i kona mau manao), oe e ike i kou wahi e hele ai, no ka mea, o ka looming e nānā ana o ka weliweli, aole e ike aku ia ia no kekahi manawa.

Pehea la oe i ike ai ia oe 'oe i loko o ke aloha? It Aloha loa noonoo ole. ʻO ka mea i āu e makemake ana e ike ia ma ka kikokiko i loko o ka huli engine ka hopuna'ōlelo, a ianoiyuaa a heluhelu i kēia kikokikona, ka mua he maopopo PAaIEN ia oe i ole indifferent i ke kanaka.