O ka papa kuhikuhi kahua i loko o ka ulu ana o ke kanaka me he kanaka, a me ka aha ka adolescence

Olelo ana maloo ōlelo o ka 'epekema, ka mea i oluolu i ka pane i ka nīnau i mea adolescence. 'O kēia ka makahiki ma waena o kamalii a me ka ulu ana i kanaka. Akā, ke ola kekahi manawa ka loa paʻakikī, e kikoo aku i ka maopopo laina ma ka wahi ia i ka manawa e hoʻopau i nā dolls a me ka hi, a hoʻomaka kekahi kuokoa makua ola. Paha makuahine a me ka makuakāne no ia makahiki, e hele 'ole.

Pehea e e hele aku i ke keiki?

O kēiaʻano a me nāʻaoʻao o ka hoʻonaʻauao 'ia i noʻonoʻo pono maʻamau ina i ke keiki e ola ana i loko o ka' ohana, a hiki i aʻo ma ke kula,, ina he mau makahiki aku nei, ua hoouna mai nā pōkiʻi i na kula maoli keiki, elemakule 11-12 makahiki. Ma tsarist Rusia, a originated i ka manawa "keiki", i hana ka hapanui keiki, mālama ana i kona ohana iho me he apprentice i na poe paahana, nā kāhuna, nā aliʻi.

Akā, me nā keiki kāne punahele a me na kaikamahine o ko lākou makua e eager e hōʻike i ko lakou ku okoa ana, kū kaʻawale, eh ÷ ike i kana hana, i mea adolescence. Na hihia o ka hoʻololi makahiki - ia mea he kaili wale ia oe i makemake e noho ai, a, e lanakila kela kanaka. I kēia mau makahiki, ma laila nō cardinal loli ma kaʻike manaʻo a me ka physiology. A i kekahi manawa ke kamaiki inehinei ka loa paʻakikī e kū kaʻawale ike a maopopo i kēia mau loli '.

Ma lalo i ka makahiki palena hina i loko o ka wā o ka adolescence?

He aha ka adolescence, wā nō paʻakikī i maopopo. I ke kenekulia iwakalua-mua, ka mea, e olelo aku nei "adolescent" a me ka Western-mika - "teenager". Translation mai English literally hiki ke ike i ka makahiki mai ka 13 a hiki i 19 makahiki (anal - makahiki kanaka i loko o keia? Aieao au, makahiki - makahiki). Kēia manawa ua lawe ke aa, a ua hoʻomano hoʻohana 'ia i loko o ka' epekema moʻokalaleo, a me ka maʻamau o ke ola. He bluntly characterizes adolescence, makahiki, hoʻomaopop 'ana i loko o laila. Akā, i ka mea ia manawa, ua nee aku Western psychologists mai ka maopopo Mea Maluna a me ka hoʻopololei o nā keiki a me ka mea ia palaki. I ka manawa ma hope o ka noho 'ana kamaliʻi, kekahi e hoʻomaka i kona makahiki 11, a pau i 19, akā, kekahi, e hoʻomaka e ulu kokoke i 13-14 makahiki, a ua hiki ole mau hou ka awkward makahiki ia iho ma mua o 15-16 makahiki. A pau ka oi aku pākahi. A he, kaikamahine, mau keʻano o ka hanaʻana lawe wahi ma mua, a me ka uuku māmā ma mua o na keikikane.

Hihia o ka hoʻololi makahiki

Ke psyche o nā kaikamahine Ua oi ka pilina paʻa, ka mea i emi mai paha, e hāʻawi aku i loko o kipi naʻau i loko, no ka mea, malia paha o ke kamaʻilio a me ka makuwahine, i maoli delve i ko lakou mau pilikia a me ka hana i loko o. Nā keiki kāne i hoʻomaka e haha aku i ka loli i loko o ke kino, hoʻomaopopo i noho mua, akā, i ke kaukaʻi ma ka makemake o ka poe hoahanau, a me ka lua kaomi waina pioloke. A pau i kēia hiki alakai i hoʻokaʻawale, mokuāhana, i kāna hana ma ka hale, a ma ke kula, ma ke alanui.

I mau, kāna hana e lawelawe pololei haawiia mai e ike i adolescence ua, hoike aku kona pilikia a pau, na mea hemahema o ka hoʻonaʻauao 'oihana, i ka nui o ke kuleana o ka teenage psyche. E pale pilikia i loko o ka 'ohana i kākaʻikahi ke aloha i loko o kēia wā. Makua ole, e ike i ke keiki punahele pohaku e ia i kekahi keiki, ia mea pono e aʻo i ka hoolohe, e emi i ke kiʻekiʻe o ka hooponopono a me ke kiʻekiʻe e hele. Ke kūlana o ka pihaʻana manakia - keia mea he pilikia i e inevitably alakaʻi i ka hakakā a me nā misunderstandings ma waena o wae.

Hiʻona o ka hui ana mai o adolescents a me kā lākou mau na¯, kumu kula, nā mākua

Kekahi oko adolescence mai kamaliʻi o kaʻohana a me ke kula hiki ke Hahai I loa maopopo, i waena o na¯, hoa a me nāʻenemi. 'O kēia ka makahiki o ke kanaka a me ka perfectionism, i mea hoʻomaopop' ana i loko o ka idealization a me ka polarity ma ka manaʻo. Inā keiki lawe na mea a pau loa literally, ma kā lākou mau loira hoʻomaka i nā ho'āʻo mua i ka hana a me ka Logical a kuhi mākau. Nā pōkiʻi e ho'āʻo ana e lanakila i kekahi wahi ma lalo o ka lā, i hoʻomaka ai mua a me ke kapuai e consolidate kona kūlana ma ka hui, aumeume aku la no alakaʻi, o ke kauoha aupuni.

Ua Ua hoʻololi me ka Hekikai o adolescence, a nana i ke kula a me na kumu. 'Oiai, mamua he kumu a me kana mau olelo i ole, ua ninau aku, e hoʻomaka i ka hana nui e paku ana i kona kino manao.

Ma adolescence makua pono e uku nui noonoo i kāu keiki aʻo ole wale e hoolohe ia ia, aka, hoi, e hoolohe, e kukakuka. Kuli i ka manao o ka ulu hou ke alakai i ka irreparable hopena mea e loli i ka holoʻokoʻa wā e ola ana o nā ke keiki a me kona ohana.