Pehea e e keiki

Ma ka ninau: "? Mahea i oe mua aʻo e pili ana i ke keka i mua o ka pau'ōnaehana o ka nahunahu hanau wehewehe" - o ka hapanui o kanaka, e olelo aku, "alanui hoa i na kumu mua o keia luna 'kumuhana."

Eia naʻe, ia mea he mea. ʻO ka hihia kahi keiki a me nā mākua, he hilinai aikane oe pilina, i ka ninau o ana i ka hana keiki pinepine waiho nā mākua i loko o ka makapo alley. Makua pinepine hiki ole loaʻa i ke kohu kūpono pane i keia ninau, a me kekahi malama malie, a hoʻouna hou i ke keiki i ka 'ohana i kekahi, a hoʻi invent me ka dukima moʻolelo.

A hailona o ka poʻe hoʻokalakupua kaʻao, he mea supposedly ka pane a hiki i keia ninau mea i oi i hookahuli ai i na keiki. Snow White hoopouli iho la i ka hau, Bun - palaoa kāwiliʻia Boy manamana nui i hele mai, mai ka hookaawale ae manamana lima. A mau nō naʻe nā makua fictional mana i nā kao keiki ma lalo o kekahi cabbage i loko o ke kīhāpai, e kuai ia ma ka hale kūʻai a lawe mai kikonia. Aʻaʻole i lōʻihi aku nei, ua hiki he Cartoon i loko i nā kākau hōʻike pehea ao e na keiki, a me ka wale laila, e halii mai i ke kikonia keiki - a me ka holoholona, a me na keiki, a hiki i ka helu kuhi henua.

E like me ka hopena o ka pololei ole mau wehewehe keiki nalowale waiwai o ka ohana ano laulea: ina hana hoopuni keiki, ka mea, 'o ia hoʻi ia mea, e ai no na makua mai i loaʻa i kekahi mea? Ma ia laua, aia no he manaʻo: "A no ke aha la e aloha a me ka mahalo aku ia lakou? Just manaʻo, loaʻa ma kahi e! Yeah, au makemake ua loaʻa i ka hoapili, Auntie! "A o ua mau kūpuna i loko o nā kūʻiʻo pū i nā kūpuna o ka 'ohana nō ole e hooiaio i keia kulana. Malia paha i ka ke kumu he mea kekahi olelo e pili ana Ivan, ka mea 'aʻole i kā lākou pili hoomanao?

No laila, ina i ole, e hūnā mai na keiki pehea e hana keiki? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ina ua kokoke i kēia pukana no Turtle, ka mea hiki e loa ai affordable a figuratively wehewehe i kēia huikau kaʻina. No kekahi mea hoopaapaa i ke kumuhana o loa ai ke kino, a no ia mea, no laila, hoihoi 'no ka hanauna kaikaina.

O ka papa, ina o ka bebe mea, ua uuku, ia mea lawa paha kana e haawi wale i ka oiaio o ka hāpai keiki. E Mamina Lyubov no ia ia, e hoikeia me ka maopopo no ia ia, e loaʻa: Mom a me Pāpā i eia aʻe e pili ana ia, maoli, maoli makemake ia ia, e e hanau ai, a no laila,ʻae koʻu makuwahine i aneane i ka makahiki e lei ia i loko o koʻu tummy, e lawe i ka eha i kona hanau ana. Keia mea ke hoala mai pakiko-ʻia bebe mea akaka ai pili aku ka pae: ia i hiki ole hōʻike i loko o kekahi 'ē ohana! He - ka mau nō lā hoʻi o ka makuahine a me ka makuakāne.

Akā, i kekahi keiki, aia ia wahi o kēia ho'ākāka. Ka mea, Pono, e ke möakäka hou, "Akā, me aʻu i loaʻa i loko o tummy koʻu makuwahine? A i loko o mau - pehea e e mau keiki, "Psychologists no laila, pane i kēia nīnau hilahila i kona mau makua:" Inā i ke keiki ke noi mai i ka ninau, ka mea, 'o ia hoʻi i kona manaʻo ka mea, ua maopopo i hanaʻia ma ka mea e loaʻa mai i ka pono ia. Pono e hoomakaukau no ka mea, i loko o mua. "

No no na makua, ma laila nō i nā puke a me nā kiʻi a me nā ho'ākāka hakuloli na keiki, i mea nō oluolu e maopopo a me ka oiaio'ōlelo e pili ana pehea e e keiki, no ke aha la wale nō i loko o nā mākua i ke hanau keiki a me ka mommies a me daddies hāʻule i loko o ka ia kahi moe. I ka papa kuhikuhiE kākauʻana i loko o kēia puke hana pono no ke aloha o nā mākua, i ka hopena o i mea no ka hanau ana o ke keiki.

Ke kahua Ua nahae ia ia mea, ua mākua e ae aku i ka ninau i like. Oia mau mea loaʻa, e ka pane i loko o ka kūikawā ohi, "Pehea e na keiki nānā mai luna" ma ke kikokikona mea i loko o ka ia inoa a koho o nā kiʻi me ka lepe kiʻi. A he mea no hoi he hana hoihoi wikiō pū, a me ka ia inoa.

Ka mea a ka mea, ua, i ka mea nui wale nō i loko o ka hanau ana o adorable keiki - o ke aloha o ko lākou mau makua, i ka makemake o ka elua, e haawi aku i ka nui loa o kona uhane, manawa, ikehu, a, e e hoʻopono, waiwai - pono e hōʻike i ka malamalama i ka hou uuku kanaka ola ka malamalama, a me ka hauʻoli.

Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e hana, a ke i ke keiki - ka mea, aole he feat. Nui hou paʻakikī e nurture i ka nawaliwali e pakele ai, e lawe mai a me ka hoʻonaʻauao iā ia, kau aku la i kona manao i ka walaʻauʻana manaÿo o kanaka pono, e hoolilo ia ia i kekahi maoli ke kanaka.