Pehea e kōkua hele mai kekahi kanaka o ke kaumaha maluhia

Kaumaha - mea he mea naʻau kāna hana wehewehe aku ma ka naau naʻau i loko, mai ka pioloke o ka noʻonoʻo kaʻina, slowness a me ka hikiʻole, e haha aku oluolu a me ka leʻaleʻa. Ma ia he kulana, mau kanaka ike pehea e kōkua i kekahi kanaka. E puka mai mai o kaumaha ma luna o kou mau - ka mea, aole he oluolu hana. E hoʻomaka, e wehewehe i kona kumu nui i loko o ka o kēia au nei.

Kekahi o ka pono kumu o ke kaumaha i loko o ka kēia kanaka ka nohona deprivation - ka nele o ka waha a me ka nonverbal kamaʻilio me kekahi kanaka, he 'aʻe' ana o ke kumu paha o ka functioning ma kaiāulu. Ma na mea olelo, me ka pat ma ka poohiwi, ka minoʻaka, akaaka a me ka oluolu i kekahi kanaka, e hina ia i loko o ka moku'āina o ka hāʻule pohō wale. Nele o ka manawa, e hoike i ko lakou olioli, a me ka Emotions, he kanaka hoʻomaka e komo ma ka uhane-Ua huli kekahi, a pinepine hiki aku ai i disastrous hopena. A luku ana mamuli o ka lawelawe deprivation mea mehameha paa a mehameha paa i loko o ka hale paʻahao. He mau wahi o ka hoʻopaʻahao, e makau loa no, no ka mea, o ka nele o ka 'ōlelo - ka mea, o ka inevitable ala i ke kaumaha, ka uhauha, a me ka schizophrenia. Pehea e kōkua i kekahi kanaka e mai o ka kaumaha a me ka haawi ia vivacity no ka mea a pau ka lā, e kōkua i ka poe noonoo ole kanaka malama a me ka aloha.

Kaulana sociologist Zygmunt Bauman wehewehe laekahi hui like, aʻoaʻo, ma kela mea keia mea ola ma luna o kona iho. A me ka mea e lawe mai ai i ka lua o ka mea no ka hiʻona o ke kaumaha - unrealized iʻini ma waho. Hoikehonua, ka moʻomeheu a me kona aiee o ke kuokoa, ulu pilikino a me ka hoʻokūkū pinepine koe mai i ka nui hapa o na kanaka. Ma ia he hui, ma kīwī, billboards, nupepa, kamailio mau i 'ike i wale i ke kanaka, e'Āhewa no a pau i ko lakou mau pilikia. Ma ia ano o ka honua ka mea, ua lohe ole ai mamua, e noi i ke kōkua, a ua pono lawe i ka hewa wale nō ma luna o lākou iho. mau ia i ka wiwo ole, a kėia mau manaʻo eʻoiaʻiʻo, mai ke ao nei uaʻike piʻi mea, mai ke kanaka, aole ia e hilinai nei.

ia he lōʻihi komo ma hope o kekahi, a hiki i ka ninau o ke ana, e kōkua hele mai kekahi kanaka o ke kaumaha maluhia. Ka loa pipiʻi, a me ka maikaʻi loa koho mea e hoopii ai i kekahi palapala hōʻoia no kauka. Rusia ua increasingly i'āpono nā moʻomeheu, a pili i ka psychotherapists i hilahila, a hiki kaila ole. No laila, mai makau oukou i ka i 'ae' "Kamehameha" a "maʻi", ina e imi palapala hōʻoia no kōkua. Akā, ua pono ike i ka papa kuhikuhiE mea i loko o ke kaua e ku e kaumaha nei oe. No akamai,ʻaʻohe mea i hookiekieia, a loeaʻo ia i ia, hiki ole ke kōkua i ke kanaka e mai o kaumaha me konaʻeleu komo.

Kekahi kumu o ke kaumaha o ke oki mare. More ma mua o 60% o nā mea a pau ka mare kakau ma Rusia disintegrate, pinepine e waiho ana i ka hui i loko o ke kaumaha ana moku'āina. Ua makemake mea, hoahanau a me ka hoʻopuniʻana kanaka ike pehea e kōkua i kekahi kanaka e mai o ke kaumaha. Akā, ma kēia hihia, oe e hoi imi i ke kōkua o ka 'oihana psychologists. hiki ole Friends a me nā hoahānau kōkua, no ka mea, ua emotionally ke komo pū o loko o ka nahā o ka noho male, a hoopaa i kekahi o nā hihiʻo o ke kulana.

Mai poina i loko o kekahi hihia ia mea e pono e nana i na mea objectively. Ma kekahi mau naau moku'āina e loaʻa ai objectivity ma ka helu mea,ʻaʻole e hiki, pela oe e mau imi i ke kōkua o ka hoao ana i ka, kuokoa, a no ia mea, ike ae la oia i ke kahua, mai nāʻaoʻao o nā kauka. Ka mea, ike pehea e koke e mai o kaumaha, oiai ka malama ana i ko lakou "I". A eia ka mea hope, e i hoopoina i na olelo a Sigmund Freud: "Mamua oe diagnose oe ia oe iho, mai kaumaha a me ka haahaa ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia, eʻoiaʻiʻo ia oe i ole hoopuniia e hupo."