Perfectionist: owai la ka mea?

Perfectionist: ka manawa

Kekahi kanaka noi: perfectionist - owai la keia? E hana i kēia, e pono e hoakaka i kekahi manaʻo: (. Mai Palani i ke oo loa - manao maikai,) - Perfectionism hana ma ka upbringing a me ka papa heightened ka makemake no kanaka maikaʻi i loko o kona mau hana a me ka hana a pau. Alaila, he perfectionist - he kanaka i mea nona perfektsiionizm. He ua hoomaopopoia no ka manawa kūpono a me ka e loaʻa ai ka manao maikai, i loko o ka wahi mua i pili ia ia iho hemahema. He nui psychologists, nae, manaoio i perfectionism - ole i ka pono, akā, he nui ka pilikia i hana haʻahaʻa ka hoʻoponopono-nani o ke kanaka, e like me ka pono me ka hopena maikaʻi 'ole ma luna o kona hana ana. Perfectionist 'aʻole i ike i ke "gula, pōʻele maila", he elua wale ihola: ka meaʻino, a me ka loa maikai - kona maikaʻi. Ka mea, aole ike i ke poohina, he mea wale eleele, a keokeo no ia ia. No ia mea, o ka mea a pau wale "maikaʻi" a "ole maikaʻi" a me ka ole "maikaʻi" mea akā maikaʻi. Ma nā'ōlelo,ʻo ia makemake e hana na mea a pau e akakaʻi, maikaʻi ma mua o kekahi, a hana i kekahi mea i na mea a pau, a me ia mea i loko o piha ka wiwo ole. I mai la ia i ke noi no ka kōkua nawaliwali.

Perfectionist - wai ka mea?

Mea kekahi mea paha makemake ka mea e loaʻa ai ma mua o ka hoʻokō i kekahi mea aole i hiki maopopo. A o ka poe nona na manao i unrealistically kiʻekiʻe pahu hopu no ia ia. Perfectionists i ikepili koʻikoʻi i ka lehulehu manao. Lākou mau pā ai kekahi noʻonoʻo loi. Perfectionists kamaʻilioʻana i hūnā i ko lakou hewa, mai 'ē aʻe. Ka mea, e makaʻu, e kiola aku la i ko lakou nawaliwali. Nolaila, e hana na mea a pau e hilinaʻi nui ma luna o lākou, e e hemolele. Ole a me ka hoʻokō 'ole' hōʻike ia i ka mea hiki ole ka hoʻoikaika 'ana ia lakou iho. E like me ka hopena, ka mea, manao lapuwale, a me kā lākou pakiko-ʻia na kulu.

Pehea e hoʻoholo i ka nui, e ka mea e pili i ka hua'ōlelo "perfectionist"? ʻO wai ka mea, a pehea e kuhikuhi i ia?

1) oe i loa kuleana, makau iho la ia e ke kuhihewa, e mea, ua hooikaika no au mamuli.

2) Makemake 'oe makemake e hana nā mea a pau i maikai loa e like me ka hiki, maikaʻi loa.

3) oe lilo nui loa manawa ma ka hoʻomaikaʻiʻana i kekahi mea.

4) oe i ke kāpae ideals, akā, na mea a pau'ē aʻe mea e maliuia no oukou.

5) oe nō ka loa loa manaʻo kiʻiʻoniʻoni o ia iho.

6) oe e painfully pane koke i ka noʻonoʻo loi o 'ē aʻe.

Oe, e mau kämaʻa 7) ka hope loa pahuhopu, milestones e mai i ke ano, no ka oe.

He aha ina perfectionism mea he Hope,ʻaʻole e mau ana? Hoi i noonoo ai i ke ao nei i mea e ole ka hana nui o ka honua moʻokalaleo, pena, kuhikuhipuʻuone, me ka nui a me ka mea i ka haku mele? E ka nānā aku i ka mea, mai ka okoa kuanaʻike. Perfectionist - wai ka mea? Keia kanaka kaʻike hoʻokumu, Mea Hana i, Mea Hana i. Mea nana i hana wale i e e he perfectionist, a me ka mea kākau moʻolelo e hana i kana hana, ke haawi mai, a olelo aku, kākau i ka hoao ana o mua, "e hele mai, a no laila," a "e maikai." Anei mākou i hiki ke heluhelu "Faust", "Notre Dame", ina Goethe a me Hugo makemake ole e perfectionists? Hiki mākou contemplate ka Mona Lisa, a, ano, ina ka Vinci makemake i hoʻoholo ole e lawe mai i ka mea maikaʻi a ke kiʻi ma luna o ka minoʻaka hoʻoipoipoʻana?

Mākou makemake ole i lohe i ka "Wailea" e Vivaldi i ma ka hookanikani ana i ka violin mai la: ", au Aʻole e holopono ana i ka aoao, a pela no ia mea maʻamau" Penei, perfectionism mea maikaʻi wale nō i loko o kekahi mau mea o ko kakou mau ola kekahi mea maoli pono i ka maikaʻi i ka mea e piʻi. Eia naʻe, e hoʻokō i ka maikaʻi mea i oluolu i ka maʻamau o ke ola, no ka mea ke kaiāulu kanaka, i loko o kākou e ola nei, he mamao loa mai ka maikaʻi. No laila, ina i ole, e hanai ana ia lakou iho meaningless illusions? Oe wale Pono e ola, a loaa na meaʻuʻuku lā?