Adolescent pilikia a me kā lākou kākoʻo pāʻoihana

Adolescence - he au ka wā mākou kamaiki inehinei, a me keia mea i ka makua keiki i loko o ka hou pae ana o kona ola. I loko o kēia wā, ke physiological EUIAaIN ke kino, hormonal kēia, i ke kanaka i oi kūlana a me ka eha, i loko o nā hua'ōlelo - "aloha i ka noho 'ana kamaliʻi". No nā pōkiʻi ua wehewehe aku ma ka impulsivity, volatility, kiʻekiʻe ka hoʻoponopono-nui, akahele a me ka cynicism i loko o ka pilialoha pilina, aia no he makemake pilikino.

He aha nō i nā hana nui loa ia o ka adolescence a me kā lākou kākoʻo pāʻoihana līkaia poe akamai? E ka nānā i ia.

1. Ke keiki Ua paa ka teenager, a no nā mākua - nō ke keiki. O na makua mea makemake e nurture kā lākou keiki no ka lōʻihi loa manawa, akā, e pono e ike ana ia mea he kanaka ka mea ka pono i ke ola. Ka mea, e hooki aku i ka mana i ke ola o kāu keiki, e hāʻawi mai iā ia i ka manawa kūpono e ola ia oe iho. E i hou kaiapili o nā pono kīvila a me ke kuleana, (e hiki ke hana ia ma ka ohana ahaolelo), e ke keiki i ia manawa i ka manaʻoi hoʻoholo 'ia, e lawe ma luna o lākou iho, a, nolaila, kuleana no lākou hopena. Hōʻike i maopopo pehea māheleʻia kaʻohana Bedroom, pehea a me kahi kala a me kahi e hele mai. Hana ia e like me he kanaka makua.
2. Ke keiki Ua paa ka teenager, a me ke kaiāulu kanaka, 'aʻole i' ae 'ia e ka opuu i ka makana mua. He manaʻo he "nui", akā, e hoʻomaopopo i kēia manawa kūpono ke ole. Kekahi o na nā mea hōʻike aku o ka papa pilikia o ka adolescence hiki e kuokoa loaʻa kālā. E kiʻi i ka 'oihana, no ka anal e hookiekie mai no oia i ko lakou pakiko-ʻia i loko o ka maka o ko lākou mau na¯ e hōʻike makua, a, e hoi i ko lakou mau eke kala.
3. Ke keiki Ua paa ka teenager, akā, me ka helehelena, aole ia e mau loa ana me hoʻopili like i keia. Small ke kino o Iesu, lōʻihi pepeiao, wahi lilelile, me ke dute helehelena, overweight - kekahi teenager manao e pili ana i kona helehelena wāwae i hele ai. Kēia hiki alakai i haʻahaʻa pakiko-ʻia, kūkulu i ka inferiority eiiieaena. E ho'āʻo i ka wehewehe ana i ka teenager ia mea he kumu a me ka pono kaʻina mea a pau o keia - na pilikia o ka adolescence a wale. Kākoʻo i ke keiki i loko o nā mea a pau e hanaʻi, ma ka huli ana ia ia iho, e hāʻawi mai iā ia i ka manawa e hoʻonā ia oe iho. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i keia hilinaʻi ma luna o kou pili hope.

Mau mea i ka papa kuhikuhiE pilikia o ka adolescence. He nui ke hoomanao i na teenager ua hoʻomaka ana i ka hou kuokoa ola, a manao e hoike mai ai ia, a ike iho me kekahi kōkua. Nolaila, au me ka manao pono ka hoike lākou mau manaʻo e pili ana i mea e hanaia, mai hōʻinoʻia a me ka mahalo i ka pono a hiki i ko lakou mau manao, a laila, e ole hoopa i ka pāʻoihana o ka pilikia o ka adolescence.

Manawa ke kumukuai o hoomanao ana ma mua oe i ke kanaka, ka mea i ka manao, o kona ano, a me kona mau manao i ke ola, a me ka kaiapuni. adolescence pilikia - mea wale nō i ka hoʻomaka o ke ala o ke ola i ke keiki i ka, no laila, e pono like mālie i hiki e hōʻoia i kona hoʻololi i loko o adulthood. Ka pololei kokoke loa i kahi a me ka maalea manaʻoʻike helu ana o kāu keiki - i ka kupaʻa me kona kōkua ma ka hoʻoponopono pilikia me ka puberty.