Anei, ua nele kaua i ka instinct o ka hoʻoponopono-e ho'ōla aku?

Lapaʻau o puke noiʻi kūʻikena Ho'ākāka 'instinct me he unconditioned reflex, a loaʻa i ka luna' ano, a ua hoikeia mai me congenital stereotyped naoh i ka hopena o kekahi mau stimuli.

Loa aku nei, i loko o kakahiaka manawa, ko kākou mau kūpuna, e hoopiha mai ana cone, hoʻomohala i ka lākou o nā 'ano' lauana. Oe hiki ole komo i loko o nā ā o ka liona - ua scratched, he mea hiki ole i ka lele, mai ka luna o ka pali - ushibeshsya. A i loko o kekahi mau:ʻaʻole au i ike i ka papau,ʻaʻole ho opuka i kou ihu i loko o ka wai! A ia - ka instinct o ke ola, a he oiaio, i ka instinct o ka hoʻoponopono-malama ana no ka pono o ke ola.

Instinct - ka mea e moe ana ma ka kupuna iaiyoe, a me na holoholona, a me kanaka,ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou i ka iʻa, mai ke alo aku o ka honua, a me ka mea e huki kanaka maluhia.

Instinct 'Aʻole i make

Child, e hōʻike 'ia ma ka malamalama, a me ka lawe pū ia i ka hoomanao ana o nā kūpuna, hoʻomaopop' ana i loko o kona nā'ōewe i loko o ka palapala o ka instinct. He instinctively mea keikihipa omo neʻe e māʻona i kona pololi, a me ka hea, ae kauoha mai nānā i ke kanaka. Ia, mai ka manawa mai o ka hanau ana, bea, a lawe mālama o ka ikaika instinct o ka hoʻoponopono-e ho'ōla aku. He 'aʻole e haawi i ke keiki i ka make o ka pololi a me ka pa ahau, hikiʻole, e hea aku no ke kōkua.

A laila, e ulu ana mai, i ke keiki hoʻomaka e lilo i kēia instinct. Ae, maiʻaʻole e kahaha! Ma keia, ke o kēia au nei mea ai pioloke a me ka biased ua hiki i ka papa kuhikuhiE hihiu instinct - ka instinct o ka hoʻoponopono-ola - hoʻomaka e mae.

Peni eradicates ola instinct

Mākou i mālama i ke keiki. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua mau no ka makau i ka mea, i ole ike pehea, e maopopo ole, a nui ka poino ke hana ia iho. Hea la ia? Simple a ua ulu mākou ma lalo o ka ia ana. kahea aku la a mākou: "Mai Mai hoopa ia, i ke ahi!", "Mai Mai holo, oe, e haule iho!"

Akā, e huli mai, ina oe e kāu keiki e makaikai i ke ao nei, a no ka manaoio i loko o kona mau instincts - ia i ole puhi, a e ole haule iho, no ka mea, aole makou e ole e ho okumu i ka Halo a puni ia, palupalu iho clumsy mea.

Inā manaʻo 'oe i ka noiʻi, ka poʻe i noho i ka lōʻihi manawa i loko o ka hihiu ohana, ka instinct o ka hoʻoponopono-ola - he kupanahaʻano papa hana, a ua ho'ā' ia paha i ka wa me he keiki hoʻomaka e aʻo i ke ao nei a puni mākou. Children i loko o kēia mau ohana mai e haule i loko o ka lua, a ua wela i ke ahi, akā, ma hope o lākou, 'aʻole i ikaika hooponopono ma ka papa kiʻekiʻe.

E like me psychologists i aku nei au, Ua pono ka ke keiki i ka mea pono, e lawe kuleana no ko lakou mau ola, a me ke kumu no ia e komo pakiko-malama instinct. A me ka mea, ua, manaoio mai iaʻu, e hana i ka maikaʻi makuahine i hoʻoholo 'no ka iho ana i ka hana i kāu keiki i kēlā manawa kēia manawa o kona ola ana, a lawe aku, pela no ka mea, he mea pono.

Ka hopena o ka lilo ana o ka hoʻoponopono-malama instinct

A laila, he mea he hou hanauna i hana ole manaʻo, hiki ole mahalo ke ola. Ua, initially, mai ka wā kamaliʻi, ua lohe mau kanaka: "E hiki ole, aole oe i ike, e hiki ole ke hana." Ka mea, ua makau, a ka mea, ua i ike ke ola, a no ia mea, hiki ole eʻoiaʻiʻo e hoolilo aku no ia. He aha e mea, manaʻo? No ke aha la oe e pono ia - keia ola? A subconsciously hookomoia ma ke konane ana i ke ola, mau kéu ia no ka ikaika. Alcohol, ai ', holoholona hihiu teenage hoʻokali kūpono' kamepiula no ka lealea - ka mea, o ka hoailona i na kanaka ka lilo ana i ke kumu o instinct o ka hoʻoponopono-e ho'ōla aku.

Mākou e hoʻomōhala ai, ua nalowale mākou mai hoopa aku i ko lakou maoli kaianoho koholā. Waiho hou pii hana kupono. Akā, i ka intellect Ua pâʻani 'o ia i kaʻino'ōlelo hoʻomakeʻaka me mākou. E pii aku i ka lani, i hou haha aku i ka honua ma lalo o kona mau wawae, ua lilo wawae eha a me ka ho'ōla nalowale.