Hoʻoponopono ulia 7 makahiki - ka aʻe kahua o? Acaeoey o ke keiki

Ma ke ola ana o na kanaka, ina keiki a kanaka makua, crises ana ma ke kamepiula. Ma lalo o ka ulia loa pinepine pili i ka hoʻololi, mai ka wa kahiko a hiki i ka hou ke kahua i loko o ka ulu o ke kanaka.

Ke keiki ulia ia lŘlŘ ka wā hoʻololi hana, no laila ia mea nui pinepine ke kumu no kona hanana ke malama me ka hou hoihoi a me ka pono o ke keiki: play, study, etc. Psychologists ua mea maʻa mau hōʻike i ka helu o ka makahiki crises i keiki - keiki, hoʻokahi makahiki, ekolu a me ehiku makahiki. Loa pinepine, i ka ulia 7 makahiki, mākua pili i nā papa ma ke kaha mua. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i keia makahiki ka mea, i ma luna o kā lākou keiki i kau ia kekahi manaolana, no laila ia Kahalaopuna kuleana no nā mea a pau kā lākou mau hana, a me ka hopena o nā haʻawina i loko o ke kula.

No ka mea manawa mua i loko o ka makahiki o ehiku, i ke keiki 'ōili mai i ka manao e like conscientiousness, nona ka hanana hilinaʻi nui ma luna o ka pahu hopu hoʻonaʻauao kope hoʻonohoʻia e nā mākua. 7 makahiki no ka hoʻoponopono ulia ua pololei ua hoʻopili i ka noʻonoʻo a me ka nohona mea hou likeʻole a me nā mamo a kēia makahiki wahi. Ka ulia i 7 makahiki o ka makahiki ua hoikea mai oia, i loko o nā loli i loko o ke keiki ka hana a me ka poho o childish. I loko o kēia wā, i ka makua i loko o kāu keiki e hai i kekahiʻimi hoʻopunipuni a me ka manipulative hana, no ka mea, mea Junior kiʻekiʻe kula haumāna e hoomaka ana e mamuli o nā mākua.

I nā mākua e lawe seriously kekahi hoike ana mai o ka ulia, like dismissive e pili ana i ia mea ino hopena ma luna o nā haumāna e piʻi like, i mea no ka hopena o kona carelessness, haʻahaʻa ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia, a ma kekahi mau hihia, kekahi manawa e hoʻomōhala ana i ka neurosis. No ia mea, hopohopo makua i loko o kēia wā o ke ola o ko lākou mau keiki e hana e kākoʻo iā ia, a kōkua iā ia i nā ho'āʻo pono.

A keiki 7 makahiki o ka hoʻoponopono ulia ua wehewehe aku ma ka hoikeana la o ka irritability a me causeless huhu kokoke i kela lā. I kēia makahiki, e increasingly maluhiluhi o ka iaʻano o ke aʻo no kekahi manawa keiki. He nolaila nui hoomakaukau i ka pono kāu keiki no ka papa ma ke kula, a hiki me ka nui loa oia i ka ulia 7 makahiki. I kēia manawa, ua nui nā aʻo kau pahuna ma adapting e schoolwork i ke keiki ka.

I wahi o ka carelessness, impulsiveness a me spontaneity o ke keiki aʻehiku e hele mai ana 'imi naʻauao ways o kā lākou mau hana a me ka manaʻo ma luna o nā mea hoʻomaoe o nā mea a pau kā lākou mau hana. He ua, ua hiki ke maopopo i ko lakou Emotions a me ka hoao ana i ka mea 'ano i kona pakiko-nani a me ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia. A pau i kēia mau manaʻoʻike nā hale, a i hou ai i ke kula ma ke a me ka pono ma ka aoao o nā mākua, e kauoha ana i ka hoʻoponopono ulia no 7 makahiki.

Ma ka hapanui o na, e kahu ai i ka lanakila ma luna a pau nā hihia i ke keiki o ka hāʻawi makahiki a me ka lanakila o ka ulia, akā, no hoi ma ko lakou mau makua, no hoi, hilinaʻi nui pili kēia i ke ola kino a me ke ano o ke keiki i loko o kēia wā o kona olaʻana. Oe E loa ālai ia 'aʻe i loko o ka noho ana o ke keiki me ka hāpai' ana i kona kōkua, ina ka mea, aole i noi mai. Poe akamai i aku nei au i ka mea,ʻaʻohe hou ka hoʻokō kōkua mai kā lākou mau mākua ma mua o ka politika-uao. Ma ka hoʻonaʻauao 'ia' ana o na keiki 7 makahiki o ka makahiki ia mea nui, e hana ia haha aku i ka hopena o kā lākou mau hana a loa ia kāna ma luna o lākou kuleana.

Ma ka mea mua aku a hiki i ke kula eʻoiaʻiʻo, e lawe i ka hoihoi i loko o ka pomaikai o kāu keiki, akā, ia mea nui, e hoʻomaopopo i i keia manawa, ia mea nui,ʻaʻole kālaiʻike e piʻi like ai ia ia, a no ka halawai hou kanaka, a i ka hoihoi. Nolaila, ninau e pili ana i kupa kula a me ka loiloi 'ana ma, ia mea i makemake loa ia ka hailonaʻana no kekahi manawa hou aku kūpono. No ka ho okumu ana o ke kanaka o ka 7-makahiki-kahiko keiki a Mānoa loa nui ka ua pâʻani 'o ia ma ka muli o inflated ka hoʻoponopono-nani , a me ka loa ka hewa, ina mea, he mea haʻahaʻa. Eia ke keiki ke kōkua nā mākua a me ka mea aloha, e noho ana ma nāʻano a pau, e hoolea aku ia ia, a paipai.

Manao lea hoi au keiki i ia ua aloha ia e kona mau makua, a me ka mea pono kōkua e lanakila i ka ulia ka mea, he mama i ka 7 makahiki o ka makahiki.