Ma pehea na pule e hele ma maternity haalele iho

'Oiai, hāpai keiki mea,ʻaʻole he maʻi akā, me kaʻoliʻoli i ka manawa maopopo, akā, i ka wa a ka expectant makuahine hana, no ka mea,ʻo ia, e akahele kanaka hoʻoponopono i ko lakou ola, a, e hoomanao i ke keiki i ka pono - ma luna o nā mea a pau e ae. Ua lawe i loko, no ka mea he kanawai, i hoʻohiki hapai wahine maternity haalele iho. Akā, ma ka nui o na pule e hele ma maternity haalele iho - hilinaʻi nui ma luna o ke ola kino a me ka Palekana.

Hooponopono maternity haalele iho

Ma mea, pehea ka nui o Aʻole e holopono ana i ka wahine hilinaʻi nui ma luna o kona iho. Ka palena iki lōʻihi like 'ole o ka maternity haalele iho - 140 mau lā' alemanaka. Kekahi e mālama i ke keiki a me ka hapalua, a hiki makahiki ekolu, ina e hiki ole haawi aku i ke kamaiki, e kindergarten paha, e hoolimalima i kekahi nanny.

Mau palena iki o 140 lā i hāʻawi mai i ke aupuni kanawai a me ka wahine e hanau maʻamau a me ke ola i ke kia-Natal wā. Inā ka manao papalua paha hoi Triple, i ka wā ua hoopomaikai io ia i 194 mau lā. Kēia lōʻihi like 'ole o ka haalele iho ua maheleia kōā kaulike i loko o elua: ma mua a ma hope o haawi (niioaaonoaaiii 70 a me 70 lā). Nolaila, ua hiki pololei ho omaulia pehea na pule e hele ma maternity haalele iho. E like me ka rula, 30 singleton pregnancies a me 28 - ina oe e kali no ka oi ma mua o kekahi keiki.

I mea e ho omaulia pehea na pule e hele ma maternity haalele iho, ia mea e pono ke ike i ka manao aku o ka hanau ana. Ua hiki ke kapaia he gynecologist, ka mea accompanies hāpai keiki. Ua ka oia i ka mea näna e 'inikua palapala.

Mai maternity haalele iho, aole ia e iho e olelo hoakaka i mua aiiia, kekahi wahine makemake e hana ana mamua, e hooki aku. e leie aku ke kānāwai, e hele i ka maʻamau Kauai, kiʻi ma luna o ka mea aie Holiday uku, a laila, koke hoopuka aku i ka maternity. Like, e hiki ke hana ma hope o haawi. Ke'ī mai, ka mea, ua kīkoʻo akula wā manawa a kekahi wahine i hiki maluhia lawe i ke keiki a hou e noho me ke keiki.

Inā mākou e haʻalele i kēia makahiki i hala aku, he mea hiki no me ka nui loa nae o ka olelo paa, iʻaelike ai me ka hele kahuna lapaau, a me ka wahine e e hiki ke waiho i loko o ke kānāwai mau pule mamua aku.

All hapai wahine, ka nānā 'ana i ka nui o na pule e hele ma maternity haalele iho e loaa no ia ia e pōmaikaʻi ai. ʻO ka meaʻaʻole loaʻaʻoihana, nā haumāna a me nā mea hoʻopukapuka kālā. Anna ina oe i ole hoonohonoho formally a me ka ole i ka unuhi i palapala i loko o ka wahiʻoihana, i ke noi, a me ka 'inikua palapala, e pono e waiho i ka Oihana o na Hana Lima a me ka lawelawe kaiāulu o Heluna.

Pehea lā ka lōʻihi o hiki oe noho me ke keiki i loko o ke kānāwai

Inā he wahine ia ia iho 'Oi ka makemake e noho me kāu keiki, a mai hana, ka mea e pili ana no, a haawi i ka haalele, e mālama i ka bebe mālama nā huahana. Kona lōʻihi like 'ole mai ka 1.5 hiki i 3 makahiki. 'Oiai, increasingly unuhi i ka haalele iho kupuna nei. Aia ka mea hewa me ia, ka mea e hilinaʻi nui ma luna o ka mea oi e pono ia e ke kālā.

A mai makau oukou i ka haku hana ke aloha ma luna o ka lōʻihi hoomaha paha a kāpae i ka limahana. Ua ku i ke kanawai. Ma keia hihia, ka mea, aole ia i mea ehia na pule e hele ma maternity haalele iho, makua mai, aole ia i hilinaʻi ma keia.

Hiki ke hana nei au i maternity haalele iho?

Ma ka kekahi lima, me ka hapai wahine mea paha e makemake hana me ka hikiwawe e loaa e ana, oiai e noho a pau dala aie, ka mea 'ē aʻe - ka haku hana i e hoihoi i loko o ka mea ana i ka mākaukau limahana, e noho hou i loko o ka hana pono.

Inā ka hāpai keiki, he mama, a oe i ka makemake e hana hou, e hoʻomanaʻoʻia ai ia i nā hua'ōlelo o ke kānāwai,ʻaʻole hiki ke hoolilo, a me ka 'āhewa' ana i i wale no ka mea maoli lā o ka mai. A ina oe decorate mea ma hope o 30 pule, i ka lilo lā wale "puhi" ia e uku keu e makemake ai ole, a me ke koena o ke ola, e noho i ka ia - e ole hoʻonui.

E hiki, o ka papa, e ho'āʻo e negotiate me na luna hooponopono ia oe maternity haalele iho, akā, e hoʻomau i ka hana a me ka uku "wahī", akā, i loko o kēia hihia oe e i hoomaluia ma ke kānāwai, a hiki wale hilinai aku ma luna o ke alakaʻi o ka honesty.