Pehea hiki au ho'āʻo i kaʻu mea i aloha ai i kekahi kanaka ... he nīnau paha ke aʻoʻia?

Kekahi kanaka me ka inoa heluhelu mea i ka nīnau kēia e kamaʻilio aku ai i ke kaikamahine, ua pono, 'aneʻi au heluhelu ia "lahui", no laila paha kekahi e e hoʻohiki,ʻaʻole e kiʻi i ka pololei a me ka hulina olelo, mea e e ke kaikamahine, e ho'āʻo i kona i aloha aku i ke kanaka. Aʻu i heluhelu i kēiaʻaoʻao, a laila au e mihi i ka poe nona ka maʻamau o lanakila, ka makewai no ka 'epekema a me ka' oihana kūpono 'ana e pono ai koe unmet. E lawe i ka irony no ia i ka nīnau, a mākou e ho'āʻo i maopopo.

A i 'ole he mea kekahi koho ... heluhelu ia a pau: nā keiki kāne a me nā kaikamāhine, no ka mea, ma ka rula, o kona aloha o ka hooiaio epekema koena unuhi i ka kekahi, e ike ... ke ninau ia i kamaʻilio.

Mai keia 'atikala, au i manao ai, keia mea i ka nīnau no ka kekahi i ka lā a me ka pono i kekahi mea kakou kamailio ana, rhetorical, a ua hoʻohana wale no i kapa i ke kumuhana o ke kamailio - pehea e ho'āʻo ke aloha ... A i' ole paha kekahi manao, e loaa anu u ma ka anu u kuhikuhi ...

No laila, ua hoʻonohonoho i kekahi manawa no ka mea nui nīnau no lakou iho imi e hūnā hope meaningless, a,ʻo aole i ka noonoo ana o ka slogans a me trite cliches. No ke aha la i keia ahaʻia nei? Au e i manaʻo kekahi e e hiki ke pane i kēia nīnau, a me ia mea,ʻaʻole wale nō ka nele o ke akamai a me ka hoao ana. Ma koʻu manao, i ka hihia i loko o ka pilikia wale, ka mea e pili ana i ka waeʻano o ka poʻe i ka mea oiaio o kona ka loaʻaʻana a me ka hoʻomanaʻo inevitably haawi ala i ka i nui ka helu o nä nïnau. No laila, pehea e ho'āʻo i kou aloha ... ke kanaka e mai e hoohalike ai i laila i kekahi mea i loko o kēia hopuna'ōlelo ka mea naauao, no laila, e like me ka pili i kekahi mea i ka i ka kŰia i aikane oe ke aloha i kekahi mea hilahila ihola?

Kela a me keia lā, ma mua o koʻu mau maka, aia no na haneri, i kekahi manawa nā tausani o ka opiopio kanaka - haumāna, nui okoa i loko o kā lākou mau mea e hopohopo nei, manaʻo, manaʻo a me nā kūlana maikaʻi i loko o mau. Au ike ia i loko o ka papa, ma kā lākou mau maka i nalowale i loko o ka nui, i loko o nā hālāwai hoʻonaʻauao, kahi a pau ke ike me ka ike i ko lakou pili i kekahi i kekahi, ike honi oiai e noho ana ma luna o ka puka makani sill, a ma ka papa o ka haumāna cafe. I hiki iaʻu ke ike a maopopo pehea ka lākou o ka hoahanau, kapaʻia ke aloha, mea i loaʻa i loko o kēia kanaka. A me ka hana a pau o ia ma kekahi wahi i loko o ka pilina, e pili ana wale nō e ho'āʻo i kou aloha a huli i aoao e hooiaio i kēia? I manao i hiki e pinepine ae la oia, a pono ho'āʻo e hoao makemakika theorems, e hiki ke hooiaio i kekahi mea i loko o ka aha ... akā, laila, e like me ka mea, ua nui pili i ka paena o keia hōʻike?

Aia o kekahi nīnau, akā, pehea ka nui o manawa i e hooiaio? Kekahi, mai ka mea nui aku la ia ia e hope i ka wa e ola ana, paha, akā, laila, ke ninau iho i meaningless, no ka mea, o ka hooiaio ana o ke aloha i ke ano o ke ola. A maanei, a ua noi no ka mea ua like no me ka pane: e loaʻa maopopo o ke aloha, e pono e ola ai no keia kanaka, ka mea au i hoao ai e ia.

No ka laʻana, e ike pehea e hōʻike i kekahi kanaka i kana mea i aloha ai,ʻo ia pono mua o nā mea a pau e malama ana ia ia iho. Paha ka mea kani paradoxical, akā, ia mea,ʻaʻole he oluolu manao, ka mea, ua pono ka a me ka hoahewa ia. No ke aha la au e olelo aku nei ia? A no ka manao e pili ana i mea e uhai iho a lanakila keia hooiaio? Mark Antony a Kaisara, hoakaka ana i kona aloha no Cleopatra, hoouna aku la na makahiki o na umi tausani o kanaka, e make i loko o ka perennial kaua ma waena o Rome a me Aigupita, ka hewa, a me ka mercantile kuapuu Talleyrand hoao i kona aloha "e neʻe" na palena o nā lāhui kanaka a pau i loko o Napoleonic Europe,ʻaʻole hoʻopoina i ka hoopiha i kona moni a ua nui no hoi oi examples e like mau "hoike". He aha e hana, pehea e hooiaio i ke keiki i kona aloha, ke kālā, keiki kanaka, ka mea i ole naʻei ke kaulana a me ka pōmaikaʻi o Kaisara Talleyrand? I manaʻo, mua o nā mea a pau, maiʻaʻole i manaʻo e pili ana ia. Oe wale i ke aloha - hua'ōlelo, ua pono e minamina - oiaio, ia mea e pono ke malama - me ka pakiko-kuluma a me ka servility, a lailaʻoe e maopopo laila - manaoio, laila - hoao ia!

Au e nana i koʻu i nä haumäna - a eʻoiaʻiʻo ka mea, uaʻokoʻa, akā, e hiki, a ho'āʻo hoʻi, a me ke aloha, a me ka maikaʻi i ka poe i hiki ole ke hooiaio ia, e like me ka notorious kumumanaʻo. I ko lakou mau maka, hauʻoli maka a me ka minoʻaka, honi i ka holo, kekahi lā maalea lima kolohe 'ana o ka noonoo ana e kamailio pu ana no ia.

A me ka mau, e pane i kēia nīnau (ina ia mea he nīnau), ia mea maikaʻi, e formulate kona aʻe, a laila 'oe ke kiʻi i ka hou pololei, a ia mea he mea hiki pane ana i ka ninau o ke pehea e ho'āʻo koʻu aloha i kanaka. A hiki aku oe i ike pehea 'oe i ke e, e inaina mai ia oukou, huli ae la lakou i ka pariah, he kiʻi o ka hewa a me ka hope, a laila, loaʻa i ka pane i loko o ka headline hilo.

Love ua ole arguing ... a me ka unprovable aloha oe a pau!