Pehea makahiki i oe ke honi aku?

Me ka adolescence a pau na keiki hoʻomaka e haʻohaʻo nei i kekahi nīnau: "Pehea nā makahiki he 'oe ke honi aku?". O ka holo ana, ke ninau nei he iki naʻaupō, no ka mea, ina he mea ole kekahi akā oe i chetryrnadtsat,ʻaʻoleʻoe i heluhelu hanohano i ka mea, ua ae ia heʻumikumamākolu, i ka mau, o ka like ua, ehia na makahiki e hiki ke honi? It OʻAʻole e pili ana i kona mau makahiki, akā, i ka mea i pono i ka loa eiiieaenu e pili ana ia, a hoolohe mai i ka hoa a me keia manawa, ka poe kaena i honi he umikumamakahi. Ma hope o ka honi mua - ka mea nui wale kekahi hanana i ua ole loa hiki hou, no laila, mai haawi aku ia i ka comer mua. I ka poʻe brag e pili ana i ka mea i ai i ka lōʻihi manawa ike pehea e honi, no ke aha la i kekahi mau loa aku noi, akā, ma kahi o ke kanaka a me ka mea a lākou mea i mua? A ina paha e mihi i ka haawi mai i ka mua honi o kona ola mea i ike i ka wai?

No laila, e ka haʻalele i ka manawa o ka nīnau, "Pehea elemakule i oe e honi aku ai?", A e manaʻo e pili ana i ka mea waiwai i ka ka mea no ka manawa mua loa i ka hana ia. Kēia e ia i ke kanaka i ka mea au eʻike piʻi ma ka liʻiliʻi loa i kekahi mau manaʻo. Kekahi mea, e ao aku oe pehea e honi, me ka e ole me laugh ma kou naʻau a me ka ia la ae hoʻopoina e pili ana i kou ola.

O he kūoʻo, akā, he mau kanaka i mua honi i ka kindergarten. A, o ka papa, vaguely hoomanao i kēia hanana. A he mea ka pilialoha ano, a no ka iwakalua kanakolu paha makahiki, akā, ka mea, no ōlaʻi loa honi. O ka holo ana, ia mea nui, nae, e like me mākou i kaulana i ka hoʻomaka, ia mea maikaʻi,ʻaʻole e hāʻawi aku i kou honi mua a hiki i ka comer mua. Lokomaikaʻi i nā mea a pau okoa, a me kela mea keia mea o ko mākou hoʻoholo pehea na makahiki e hiki ke honi aku.

Inā 'oe i manawa, heluhelu i kekahi wahi o ka moʻokalaleo ma luna o ke kumuhana, e aʻo i ka liʻiliʻi loa theoretically, e honi, me ka ole i ka manaʻo e pili ana i ka ninau: "Aole au i ike pehea e honi, mea e hana ai?". Ma keia 'atikala mākou e haawi aku i kekahi manaʻo kōkua a me ka'ōlelo aʻo.

Kiss - ka mea maikaʻi loa i nā mea hana, e kōkuaʻoe ka hoike i kou aloha i kekahi. Mea 'o ia hoʻi ka mea, ua hiki i ka hoike mahalo a me ka pomaikai. mai ka wā kamaliʻi a me ka honi mākou aʻo, no ka mea, i ka honi ma ka papalina, hoi, koi he wahi hana. A mākou e ole e honi i kekahi mea i aloha ai i kekahi a hoa a me ke ola hoapili ia, a me ko kakou mau makua, pōkiʻi, mau kūpuna, etc. A i ka honi ma ka papalina kēlā loaa ma naʻano likeʻole, no laila, manaʻo koi ma pehea e hana i kēia, aole hiki ole e. Eia naʻe, loaʻa nō kekahi rula, ua familiarized me a oe ke manao i ka honi ma waena o ke kanaka a me ka wahine, me ka i hoʻomaka i ka manaʻo: "? Au e i ike pehea e honi, mea e hana". I ka mea, a pau ka he mea.

Ka mea mua a me ka mea nui wale rula honi - e oiaio, e hoolilo i ko lakou maoli Emotions a me ka manaʻo, ai ole oe e holo aku au i ka pilikia o ka kuni beschustvennym kanaka. A i ole kumu i loko o ka manaʻoe kūkulu i mea e maopopo lea ai ina keia o kou hapalua a ina paha e aloha kekahi io, ka mea, ua? Aeiiaiaoaony e honi ia ia. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ina na ko i ole maoli, alaila, i ka honi, e ia i ka ia. He aha e hana inā 'oe makemake e makaʻu i ka honi? No-TH-la! Paulele i kona naau, a instincts, no ka mea, ka mea e ole loaa ole ia. E ho'āʻo i ka honi me he mea la kou honi hope i loko o ke ola. Ma keia hihia, pono a pauʻana!

Oe Pono e koho i ka henua a me nā kumu no ka honi. Naʻe, ka mea, aole ia i mea paha i 'ole ka mea puni paha,ʻaʻole. I ka papa kuhikuhiE mea i i ka lewa o ke aloha a me ka palupalu ma waena o oe. Akā, i ka Awaits pono e noho i loko o kekahi hihia. A eʻoiaʻiʻo e mālama i kou hanu hou! Mau i ka manawa a me ka maemae niho, lawe aku i ka nui aʻe ana, me he ino ka hanu i deter i kekahi kanaka.

E hai mai e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo hoalawepu, e hai mai iā mākou e pili ana i kou aloha no ia ia. Kēia, e haawi nui pilialoha honi. Poina e pili ana i ke oolea, hoʻonānea, a hele aku e hālāwai me ka mea hou ka waiʻona ma!

E hoomanao i ole mea i ka honi i no o kou ola. Kekahi, ma nā mea a pau o nā manaʻo a pau au i no kekahi i kekahi, a laila ia e e poinaʻole!