Male workaholics oko i loko o ka iini a me ka poe ilihune ola?

E ka breadwinner i loko o ka 'ohana ka hanohano, i ole ia? E loaʻa hou i ke kala, a 'akomi' haawi mai oe i ka mana nui. Paha oe lawe hou hoʻoholo a emi housework. He aha hou aʻe hiki oe e noi aku ai?

Ke hou i ke kālā, i ka lalo o ka pakiko-ʻia?

Akā, e like me ka hou sociological ao, aia no he ana kumu: ia i ke kanaka o ke breadwinner i loko o ka 'ohana, keia i ka hopena maikaʻi ma luna o kona noʻonoʻo. Ua huli mai i ka poe e loaʻa hou, i haʻahaʻa ka hoʻoponopono-nani a kiekie pae o ka iini. Ke manao nei makou workaholics hāʻule i loko o ka waeʻano o ka pilikia i loko o kekahi mau aoao. Ma waho o ka mea ia e aa aku i ke olonā wāwae lākou physical ola, e hoʻomaka e hana eha iaʻi mai ka nele o ka noʻonoʻo 'maikaʻiʻana. No ke aha la i keia ahaʻia nei?

Nui ma luna o ke kūlana o ka 'ohana

Eia ka mea a lakou e olelo aku i ke ao kākau, "A hiki aku oe i ka pau breadwinner o kou 'ohana kūlana haʻahaʻa mea ihola ia e kaukaʻi ma luna o kou uku. Ina o ka wahine hana pū, akā, he he uuku uku, ke kuleanaʻanuʻu ma luna o kou mau poohiwi. E hoʻomaka i ka hopohopo e pili ana i mea i ka 'ohana e hele ana i ka pono, a ua makaukau e lawe ma luna o kekahi overtime. " He 'ike i loko o nā hale o kahi breadwinners nā wāhine, hōʻike he diametrically ke alo kiʻi. No ka mea nani hapalua o ke kanaka ua correlated he nui oi aku o ka makahiki kona me ka kiʻekiʻe mea naʻau maikaʻiʻana.

No ke aha la na wahine e paakiki poe hana haha maikaʻi?

No na kanaka, e e kuleana no ke kālā pomaikai o ka 'ohana i he nani, aka, i ke ano o. No kekahi, e hoolea aku ia ia, no ka mea, ua ukuia he wahi lihi iki o ke kala. No kekahi e mahalo i kona piʻi like. Akā, he mea maikai ia, e lilo i kekahi hapa o ka uku e like me ka mea koke noho pilikia pua manu. Ma ka hihia o ka wahine breadwinners, i kekahi mau mea. Mai ka maikai ke keka ua i mua manaʻo ai i kekahi mea hoʻokalakupua. Akā, e pono ke kuai wahine pii i ka 'oihana hulili, ka mea a puni, e mahalo kona pomaikai. E halelu aku, mai ka hui me kėia, a ua laweʻia ka wahine, e hana me ka papaluaiaʻi ikaika. A hiki ina mea e lilo lākou makahiki,ʻaʻohe i kekahi e hoino ia ia no ka mea.

A hou nānā i nā loina hoohanau pelekikena a

Ke ao, mālama 'ia me ka puka haumāna Kristin Myunsh Metyu Rodzhersom a me Jessica Yorks, ua, e hookahe aku i ka malamalama i nā loina hoohanau mau manamana i loko o Western lehulehu. Eia ka mea a mākou i loaʻa mai i ka sociologists. I ka lā, i ke koena unuhi mea no ka uku nahā i, a me na wahine ka loaʻaʻana wale 79 hapa haneri o ka huina i na kanaka ka loaʻaʻana. Naʻe, i ka maikaʻi kükohu o ka ohana ana o ka weuweu iwakālua kenekulia oiaio no losing lepo. Ano, uuku ohana kahi i ke kanaka o ka papa kuhikuhiE breadwinner, hana mai ke kakahiaka a ka hopena i ka po, oiai kana wahine noho i ka hale a me na keiki, a me ka breadwinner kō ka paepae ono awakea. No laila, i ka makahiki 1967, aneane 50 pakeneka o ka mare wahine, he mau housewives. Currently, i ka helu o ka ole-e hana ana i na wahine, hina iho la i ka 20 pakeneka. Aia i kekahi hana hoihoi mea: 38 pakeneka o kēia 'Amelika wahine ka loaʻaʻana aku ma mua o kā lākou mau noho male.

Nāʻikepili Ua loaa ma ke kumu o ka 'elele ana manaʻo

No kā lākou like, Dr. Munch hoʻohana i ka 'elele ana, ma ka i oi aku mamua o 3 tausani nā mea i paneʻia, ua wae. I komo kū kaʻawale Loiloi i ka moku'āina o ko lākou mau kino ola, ka noʻonoʻo 'maikaʻiʻana, e like me ka pono i loaa i loko o e like me ka loaa ana o kekahi wahine. Noiʻi alakai hooponopono no nā mea i paneʻia 'makahiki, ka hoʻonaʻauao, hulina makahiki, e like me ke alo o ke keiki.

I ka manao o ka mea kākau o ka noiʻi

Ma mau, ua hai mai la na kanaka kiekie ae o ka uku o, a oi hana hola no hebedoma. Naʻe, i nā kānaka kaheaia kekahi'ōhumu mai me kā lākou ka noʻonoʻo a me ka physical maikaʻiʻana. Kākau o ke ao i wehewehe i kaʻikena au: "nō ka uwa maila imi e loaʻa hou, a nui, e hoolako i ka pono keia i ka 'ohana, no ka laʻana, aupuni hale a keʻena oi huinahalike wikiō. Akā, i ka wa a ke kanaka hoʻomaka e loaʻa i ka hailona, ia mea loa paakiki, e lawe no i koe hoʻi, e hoole i ka hana overtime, a pana aku au i hou manawa me kona ohana. E like ina oia mea make wai, i loko o kona naʻau ua paʻa noho ma luna o ke kuleana. Kēia kahua ke alakai i ka mea psychologists kapa aku "maʻi pale gula nā hīnaʻi manu." Ka wā e loaʻa i ka hailona o ke kala, he mea paʻakikī loa e OIeEOEIeAeEIIe, i ka hana o ka oi ka puaʻa na mea i hoihoi ole mai au oe makahiki. "